Jun 26, 2002 09:32
How to make that first kiss a memorable one
By the readers of CyberKisses
There's nothing quite like the first kiss you share with that special someone;
the kiss that will set off fireworks and send shivers up and down the spine.
It's the kiss that will still bring a smile decades later.
Our readers have offered the following tips on making it memorable...for both of you.
How to!
Moisten your lips.
Have fresh breath and clean teeth
Hold her closely. Wrap her in the strength and safety of your arms.
Feel the passion and let it show. A kiss without passion will not be memorable.
Be warm…share the heat of your body and the heat of your passion.
Talk to her… but not during the actual kiss. Communication is part of building anticipation.
Be soft and sweet. Harder, more passionate kisses will follow if she responds to the first one.
Be spontaneous….surprise her…but be careful that you won't offend her by taking the first kiss if she's not ready for you to.
Build anticipation. Yes, you can be spontaneous and still build anticipation toward your first kiss. If you can hear and feel your heartbeat, so can she.
Choose a romantic location….a moonlit night in a secluded area, for example.
Gaze into her eyes as you move into the kiss.
Close your eyes as you kiss….although some women prefer the man to have his eyes open
when they kiss.
Linger on her lips. Enjoy the kiss…enjoy her.
You can give a peck before the "real" kiss.
Caress her face and hair as you kiss her tenderly.
Caress her face, lean down and kiss each corner of her mouth before kissing her lips.
How not to!
Don't crush her. She already knows you're stronger than she is
Don't slobber all over her.
Don't kiss so hard it hurts her.
Don't gag her with your tongue. A tease of the tongue will do wonders for a kiss. more later
Don't extend the kiss too long.
Don't try to devour her.
The French Kiss or to tongue or not to tongue..
The tongue should be used very sparingly for a first kiss and only when you know she'll be receptive to it.
Be gentle. Softly probe her lips with the tip of your tongue. Be aware of her response; if she opens her mouth, gently slide your tongue between her lips brushing against the tip of her tongue. Tease her with the tip of your tongue and then withdraw.. leave her wanting and wishing for more.
Anticipation is the major player. Courtship is not well practiced these days. The art
of kissing, the nibble, the breath on the skin, the slight brushing of the lip all carry
anticipation of the first moist warm lingering kiss. The embrace wraps the kiss in sensual
splendor. The heat that radiates from the human touch can be felt for days after. The tingle
that slowly spreads and quickens your pulse, causing your heartbeat to be felt, these are the
major elements of a great kiss..
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