My strengths and weaknesses in love - and how they affect life with the Tenacious D

Apr 18, 2006 16:34

The strengths are quite true and the weaknesses don't matter that much.

Dating StrengthsDating Weaknesses1. Open-Mindedness - 72.7%
2. Spirituality - 69.2%
3. Kindness - 63.6%
4. Adventurousness - 58.3%
5. Optimism - 57.1%
1. Lack of Essentials - 66.7%
2. Appearance - 55.6%
3. Insecurity - 53.8%

Dating Strengths ExplainedOpen-Mindedness - You are open to trying new things and entertaining new ideas, and this widens your pool of available men.
Spirituality - Your spiritual side brings you peace and balance, and keeps you grounded. This is attractive, as you can help reinforce this quality in other people.
Kindness - You treat other people with empathy and goodwill. This positive trait helps you stand out and draw people into your warmth.
Adventurousness - You are willing to try new things and be spontaneous. You want to get out there and really live, and you will attract people with a similar love of life.
Optimism - People are drawn to your positive outlook. Your optimism attracts others to you.
Dating Weaknesses ExplainedLack of Essentials - Dating is difficult for you because you lack certain key things, which may include private space, a car, money, or a nice wardrobe. Work toward obtaining these essentials!
Appearance - Devoting a greater effort at making good first impressions is a must. Try to be fit and develop a style if you want to catch a man's attention.
Insecurity - Your insecurity makes you doubt yourself, but you must learn to love and trust yourself if you want to succeed in dating.
Dating Strengths and Weaknesses Quiz by Dating DiversionsDating Diversions led me to a new community called The Fourth Kingdom.

I think I might have lots of fun there! And learn heaps too.

Not looking for a man at the moment. Am busy and happy in my career and that keeps me going as always. The spirituality is doing that too, and so is helping other people. I do have enough money - I know how to be thrifty in most circumstances. Poor Skills is probably a good help.

I should not like twenty million men looking at me when I have one to whom I am committed absolutely and forever.

I might be a bit old for the Kingdom.

I was surprised at how many assets I do have, and I might do a little serious reflecting on how they have helped me in my current relationship. I knew I could not have him if I was not open-minded, kind, adventurous, optimistic or spiritual. Certainly my optimism counters a few Eeyore tendencies on his side. Have written lots about him and our relationship in my paper journal so might be wise to summarise. Or to send him a Howler telling him how much I miss him, and that I hope he gets good work in the theatre!

(We both are Harry Potter fans as you can tell from the last!).

I think you might describe our relationship as a friendationship as it is built on friendship and agape love as much as eros and the pragmatic sort of love. I tend to be very old-fashioned about things like courtship probably as a result of having read L M Montgomery at an impressionable age when my ideas about love, friends and relationships were formed. One of my favourites is Anne's House of Dreams.

Oh dear! I'd forgotten to put POST. A choo! Am not feeling particularly well! I had quite a phelgmy throat this morning and I have found it difficult to speak.

love, memes of all kinds

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