Grief

[dunphamom]

So this is grief

Comments

[juliesgirl]

aunt shelly i love you so much. I wish i could come and give you a HUGE hug. please let me know if there is anything i can do.

Hug received

[dunphamom]

You did do something. your comment kept me from feeling silly about writing here. Thank you.

Re: Hug received

[juliesgirl]

don't ever feel silly. I always read what you write and in a few weeks I'll be back in coumbia for good, so anytime you need a hug let me know.

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[dunphamom]

I just read that you are withdrawing from school. I am sad that you are doing that. January is such a dreary time for everybody. Sometimes just waiting for the spring is a victorious thing to do. And what blooms where you are is unexpected and well worth the wait through the death of winter. Consider yourself hugged back, and you will be in my prayers, as corny as that sounds. Love you.

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[juliesgirl]

i'm sad about withdrawing to a certain extent because i don't want to make other people mad at me but i'm not doing well at all. Classes are going find but i'm not taking care of myself and all and i need to come back to do that. I need to focus on getting me better than anything else. Thank you for the hugs and prayers. they are much needed. I love you

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[dunphamom]

I'm commenting on yours, while you're replying to mine. wierd. Dialogue in almost real time on LJ. Don't worry about making others mad unless they are the people who matter. Then ask yourself, why are they mad? If its because they want the best for you, then really look hard at what's the truth of the situation. At my father in law's funeral he sent words to us through Brian's brother who had sat through chemo with him. "Matter to those who matter." and "Prayer works".
I'm guessing that your mom matters.
Funny thing is, I bet my son is feeling much the same things right now.
Yes, I'm thinking he's sure I'm pissed at him.
You know, the groundhog did not see his shadow. Early Spring........

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[juliesgirl]

speaking of patrick i really wish i could see him right now. It's the perfect time for one of his amazing hugs. Yeah. That's what both of us (me and patrick) we need each other. I want my best friend.