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[dukesadog]

I found out today that I have possibly been betrayed by someone I confided in. I am disappointed in this person if it's true. I wish I knew who I could and couldn't trust. I also wish I wouldn't give so much of myself to everyone! If I weren't so open, things like this wouldn't happen. If they really did do this, then shame on them! I won't

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[gusterbrown]

Val, I'm sorry that you've discovered someone else in your life that may have betrayed you. I know the feeling, and, it sucks. Have you confronted them about it? Or are you simply going by what someone else has told you? I know I've made that mistake once in my life, and, I'll never do it again. Anyway, I hope you can work things out with that situation, whatever it is. Ugh, I got into it again today (it's been a long time, though!) with you-know-who. It sucks, too, because she just absolutely brings out the worst in me. I just don't like the way she talks down on me at all. It really makes my blood boil when anyone talks to me like I'm a child. Anyway, I thought about it and realized that for whatever reason, she and I just bring out the worst in eachother, and, we could go round and round all day long and never understand eachother's points of view. It's ridiculous, and, completely pointless. I know no matter what I say, she's always going to take it as bashing her, even though the most I've ever said is that she's rude to me. And, lately she's not negative like I noticed she had been for awhile. Anyway, I ended up coming home and apologizing for reacting so rudely in response to what I thought was a rude and condescending reply to a simple question. But, I just need to avoid conversation with her, because I thought everything was basically water under the bridge, but, I guess not. Oh, well. Anyway, I would like to think that you and she might be the past problem you're absolving. That's always good when that can happen, Valerie. But, I'm so sorry that there's someone else popping up that's betrayed you. :( I know we don't talk a whole lot, but, if you want, you can email me. You have it. I'll pm my phone number, too, if you'd like that. I'm excited about the Christmas card list. And, am so glad that you are organizing it!