curiosity kills perception, not the cat.
im usually irked by these eccentric idea of online-dating. haha, i know, i must be random.
see, i have this friend of mine who have countless number of 'hybrid' friends hitting on her online friend portal. being asian, i bank on this perception of what was it about her to appeal so much to these hybrids. see, this 'online friend portal' thing (which i swear everyone has!) is mainly connecting your school mates, long lost childhood friends and sometimes families (lol!) and the only way, for me at least, having these hybrids around are by hitting the 'friend' button on their portal first or just getting to know them from a different platform altogether and getting connected on this common site. there were countless times that i question her 'discovery' of these hybrids, but the subject was always diverted. so then was once she spilled the beans without meaning to. and yes got it - its okcupid. (LOL!)
i do stereotype, sometimes. but hey, how can i not to when this friend of mine have always been emphasizing herself to not be the 'dating'/'relationship' type for the longest time ever. so, i didn't really judge until i got word from her that this guy shes's been contacting with gets totally into her. and guess what, they're over the moon and stars right about now. say, jealousy is not the word here. i am trying to decode how people do change and go back on their words - most times.
the point here is, i am in fact intrigued by humans and how they feel and think and perceive things. how they perceive themselves to be and what they will be the next minute. see, i hold on this idea that change is inevitable, and when someone goes through that - behind a reason or none, they either do it for the better or for the worst of themselves. while change comes with its partner - choice, we are all given privilege to choose if we want it to happen. that is why sometimes, people like me judge. hey, i am human too. whilst, on my defense - i judge only at the first stage. and then i'll take back my words cause i know people have reasons and they are rational enough to result to those choices. i do not rule their life nor they owe me part of it - vice versa. so, i decide to surrender my fate and let my guard down on all the changes going through, behind, infront, below and above me. i am no one to stop nor control them. as much as i do not agree with being treated that way. we all have one life, live it as how you perceive it to be as long as you are happy and you do not harm nor hurt the people around you. stay grateful and be positive nonetheless, always.
here, i raise my glass to everyone and an eternity of positivity.
*disclaimer: this post is not intended on any particular person though 'friend' is sneeringly mentioned in this post.
see, i have this friend of mine who have countless number of 'hybrid' friends hitting on her online friend portal. being asian, i bank on this perception of what was it about her to appeal so much to these hybrids. see, this 'online friend portal' thing (which i swear everyone has!) is mainly connecting your school mates, long lost childhood friends and sometimes families (lol!) and the only way, for me at least, having these hybrids around are by hitting the 'friend' button on their portal first or just getting to know them from a different platform altogether and getting connected on this common site. there were countless times that i question her 'discovery' of these hybrids, but the subject was always diverted. so then was once she spilled the beans without meaning to. and yes got it - its okcupid. (LOL!)
i do stereotype, sometimes. but hey, how can i not to when this friend of mine have always been emphasizing herself to not be the 'dating'/'relationship' type for the longest time ever. so, i didn't really judge until i got word from her that this guy shes's been contacting with gets totally into her. and guess what, they're over the moon and stars right about now. say, jealousy is not the word here. i am trying to decode how people do change and go back on their words - most times.
the point here is, i am in fact intrigued by humans and how they feel and think and perceive things. how they perceive themselves to be and what they will be the next minute. see, i hold on this idea that change is inevitable, and when someone goes through that - behind a reason or none, they either do it for the better or for the worst of themselves. while change comes with its partner - choice, we are all given privilege to choose if we want it to happen. that is why sometimes, people like me judge. hey, i am human too. whilst, on my defense - i judge only at the first stage. and then i'll take back my words cause i know people have reasons and they are rational enough to result to those choices. i do not rule their life nor they owe me part of it - vice versa. so, i decide to surrender my fate and let my guard down on all the changes going through, behind, infront, below and above me. i am no one to stop nor control them. as much as i do not agree with being treated that way. we all have one life, live it as how you perceive it to be as long as you are happy and you do not harm nor hurt the people around you. stay grateful and be positive nonetheless, always.
here, i raise my glass to everyone and an eternity of positivity.
*disclaimer: this post is not intended on any particular person though 'friend' is sneeringly mentioned in this post.