THIS IS TAKING FOREVER...

[dstah]

So does anyone know if there is a way to grab all of your LJ entries at once and make them "Friends Only" or if i have to keep going through and do it one by one......

Please let me know asap if there is, as this is driving me bonkers.

Yes I am going through and not deleting my old entries but making them all Friends only, so that all of my LJ

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[anonymous]

but darling, you haven't actually done anything about/with those lusted boys... have you??? It's the whole look no touch thing. Flirting without intent is ok. At least I think so.

Obv. I don't know everything but won't she get more upset if you tell her you've had a blog but then hide all past entries? Won't she figure it out?

It's all about intent. If you've deliberately said things that you knew would upset her thats not-so-goodish but if it's all innocent and she gets angry, they're her issues not yours.

xx elaine

ps can't help with LJ stuff.

and Why can't she know that your blog is old?

[dstah]

That's what I've always thought, that it's just crapping on about shit so it doesn't really matter. But it would matter to her. She would get angry/upset/lose the plot. No matter how innocent things were (or not).... Yes she does have issues more so than other people... but then shouldn't I have more respect about that

[flashflashflash]

If you click on the "Calendar" or "Archive" link on someone's LJ, it will show you a calendar marking the days you made an entry. If the entry is friends only, it can't be accessed by any old Joe Schmo, but it will still show up on your calendar, so be aware of that!!

I don't really know what kind of advice to offer you D. Most everyone knows about my LJ, so I don't know what I'd do if I had to hide it from someone.

I think we should all be able to trust our partners and know that they wouldn't judge us based on anything we share with the world. But if that's not the case, then do what you can to protect yourself from any messiness... xxx

[dstah]

Shit bebe... good point about the archive... I don't know if there's any way around that one.....if anyone has any ideas....

*sigh*

I'm just sick of all the drama & trying to eliminate any future cause... but it seems like it's just impossible....

[anonymous]

ah. You don't think she suspects, do you?

Maybe you should come clean. Explain why you blog and what you blog about (in general terms).

I have nothing against the non-reveal, withholding some things is ok. But a deliberate half lie? Wouldn't that lead to more tears/ugliness in the long run?

Sorry, I'm not really helping here.

*hugs*

xxe

ps we all have issues that we need to deal with on an ongoing basis. Maybe this could help in the long term?