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I have a friend that can't get over her ex-boyfriend because clearly she's still "in love" with him and she tried to tell me today about the weird dreams she's been having about him. I'm glad that she stopped when I told her to just stop right there, no thank you, but I've told her before when she just tried to talk to me about him in general that I don't offer sympathy past what is due and am kind of brutally honest when I get ticked. I didn't know the guy (only met him like twice) so what on earth makes her think that I will have any reaction to it other than "...okay"?
Ugh. I hate relationship drama. I am definitely one of those people who keeps their hands free of it as much as possible because I don't see the point in getting involved at all if it's over. I love her, but people are just sometimes insufferable. *kicks things*
Maybe this makes me a bad person. You know, uncaring, stone-cold, numb--selfish, even.
But you know what? I'm tired of letting other people's ~feelings~ influence what I think and feel. I've always been the listener, now it's my time to take an extended vacation from dealing with their issues because all of the wangst and rage at other people I get dumped on me on a regular basis is really kind of screwing with my head.
Also, HAPPY HAPPY BIRFDAY JASFACE. I LOVE YOU LOTS and you'd better have watched your present when I talk to you next. It's full of flail and me being a spaz and has speshul props and everything. ;D
Ugh. I hate relationship drama. I am definitely one of those people who keeps their hands free of it as much as possible because I don't see the point in getting involved at all if it's over. I love her, but people are just sometimes insufferable. *kicks things*
Maybe this makes me a bad person. You know, uncaring, stone-cold, numb--selfish, even.
But you know what? I'm tired of letting other people's ~feelings~ influence what I think and feel. I've always been the listener, now it's my time to take an extended vacation from dealing with their issues because all of the wangst and rage at other people I get dumped on me on a regular basis is really kind of screwing with my head.
Also, HAPPY HAPPY BIRFDAY JASFACE. I LOVE YOU LOTS and you'd better have watched your present when I talk to you next. It's full of flail and me being a spaz and has speshul props and everything. ;D