pride vs neccessity
dilemma:
i told him no sexo unless i get a piece of paper from the doctor saying he's clean.
now i research how damned much money it costs to get tested--at planned parenthood it's 200 dollars for gonnorhia/chalymydia (spellings of crazy diseases are wrong, i know) and that doesn't include aids/hiv/herpes/syphillis, etc!
can i go back on my word and possibly, in his eyes, become someone who isn't serious about what i say? i am serious. i want him to get tested. but i don't want to ask him to spend 200 dollars to do that.
hmmm.
i told him no sexo unless i get a piece of paper from the doctor saying he's clean.
now i research how damned much money it costs to get tested--at planned parenthood it's 200 dollars for gonnorhia/chalymydia (spellings of crazy diseases are wrong, i know) and that doesn't include aids/hiv/herpes/syphillis, etc!
can i go back on my word and possibly, in his eyes, become someone who isn't serious about what i say? i am serious. i want him to get tested. but i don't want to ask him to spend 200 dollars to do that.
hmmm.