Emsasculation- YAY
Well, since I am still sure this is another subject I am not allowed to post on Darkguild, because it does involve someone who lives with me, I am again going to post it here.
You know, my wife has worked for Olan Mills, for a month now, and not recieved one damned pay check, not one. She has called and left messages with her district manager, and gotten no response. She has borrowed, from everyone we know, just to get gas to get back and forth to work, and we have pawned everything we have, of value, in order to get, just a little bit of money for gas and food. Seriously , I have nothing left to pawn.
At anyrate, today, I checked the mail, and again today, she recieved no pay check in the mail, and so, I got pissed, I decided that I would come in here, and email the company directly to tell them the issue, the fact that she has not recieved a pay check, and has worked there for a month. As it stands, we can not use a phone to call, we have no phone, because She has not got paid. We had the choice, home or phone, and I personally would rather have shelter as a phone. At anyrate: As I am trying to write the email, certain it will be seen by the Complaints department, and taken to the proper person, she yells at me And yells at me .. and grabs me so that I can no longer type, and yells at me.. Because I am going to get her fired if I do that.. OMG, Big fucking woop, I am going to get you fired from a job that will not pay you.. But ... that is not the point..
The point is I am not a man, I am not allowed to make my own decisions, I have them made for me, When She has a problem, that she has tried and tried and tried to handle, I am not allowed to step in, Like a man, and take care of the issue. Once again, I am emasculated, I am nothing, I am just her little bitch, who must do what she says, and must act the way she wants, and must be exactly everything she thinks I am supposed to be, but not overstep my place... I am not worthy of being a partner, I am only someone who must listen and do exactlyk what is said to me, and if not, I am being a bad husband.
but hey.. whatever.
You know, my wife has worked for Olan Mills, for a month now, and not recieved one damned pay check, not one. She has called and left messages with her district manager, and gotten no response. She has borrowed, from everyone we know, just to get gas to get back and forth to work, and we have pawned everything we have, of value, in order to get, just a little bit of money for gas and food. Seriously , I have nothing left to pawn.
At anyrate, today, I checked the mail, and again today, she recieved no pay check in the mail, and so, I got pissed, I decided that I would come in here, and email the company directly to tell them the issue, the fact that she has not recieved a pay check, and has worked there for a month. As it stands, we can not use a phone to call, we have no phone, because She has not got paid. We had the choice, home or phone, and I personally would rather have shelter as a phone. At anyrate: As I am trying to write the email, certain it will be seen by the Complaints department, and taken to the proper person, she yells at me And yells at me .. and grabs me so that I can no longer type, and yells at me.. Because I am going to get her fired if I do that.. OMG, Big fucking woop, I am going to get you fired from a job that will not pay you.. But ... that is not the point..
The point is I am not a man, I am not allowed to make my own decisions, I have them made for me, When She has a problem, that she has tried and tried and tried to handle, I am not allowed to step in, Like a man, and take care of the issue. Once again, I am emasculated, I am nothing, I am just her little bitch, who must do what she says, and must act the way she wants, and must be exactly everything she thinks I am supposed to be, but not overstep my place... I am not worthy of being a partner, I am only someone who must listen and do exactlyk what is said to me, and if not, I am being a bad husband.
but hey.. whatever.