Yeah. It's easy for me to sit here and tell you that it's all gonna work out when things have already worked out for me. It's not really something you can do anything about until your brain just decides to stop torturing you with hormones. One day, it just kinda... went away. I still wanted love, but I was willing to let it come to me instead of falling for anything that talked to me.
You do have to be solipsistic about your own perception of yourself (man, that's confusing). You can't let outside impressions cloud your self-image. You know who you are better than anyone. You know you're a good person who deserves good things. You can't let anything make you feel like a loser, because you aren't one innately. Once you know what you are, nothing else matters.
Confidence. It's not the kind of confidence that lets you go up and talk to women. That comes later. First is confidence in who you are and what you believe. You're not a loser and no one can ever tell you that you are or give you that impression. But it's not because I say you aren't. It's because you aren't.
It sounds totally self-absorbed and it makes you seem like an asshole, but it's the truth, and there's nothing you can do to get around the truth. Might as well accept it.
You do have to be solipsistic about your own perception of yourself (man, that's confusing). You can't let outside impressions cloud your self-image. You know who you are better than anyone. You know you're a good person who deserves good things. You can't let anything make you feel like a loser, because you aren't one innately. Once you know what you are, nothing else matters.
Confidence. It's not the kind of confidence that lets you go up and talk to women. That comes later. First is confidence in who you are and what you believe. You're not a loser and no one can ever tell you that you are or give you that impression. But it's not because I say you aren't. It's because you aren't.
It sounds totally self-absorbed and it makes you seem like an asshole, but it's the truth, and there's nothing you can do to get around the truth. Might as well accept it.
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