Apr 27, 2007 23:34
lets start off with a question that has always goes through my mind,
why do people just hook up? Whats the point?
sure to get out sexual tension, its fun, i kinda like the person, and the best excuse i was drunk.
our whole lives we have seen movie after movie, read book after book about how people fall in love and live happily ever after. The cute teen romance stories about young love, but does hooking up ever lead to that. Not really. I feel relationships that start off physically generally get pretty much all physical fast. Not that im saying its bad but its not really good either.
Now im not saying i hate hooking up, i mean come on i do it to. But personally i get very uncomfortable doing stuff with people i dont know on a emotional level. I dont like hooking up with someone i met right then and there. But then it differs on people of course.
I guess what im trying to say it that i feel inorder for a relationship to last longer then there should be more time talking and just hanging out then hooking up like crazy you know? i mean when kristin asked me what austin and i did when i went to him house alone the other weeks, i was completely honest when saying "nothing actually just watched the game and talked." But then its not like ive been in any long term realtionships nor do i feel i will soon.
I dont know im just all jdahsflkjhaweliuhaewg right now and bored and stressing myself out.