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So far I can tell that people are viewing my page. I did get few flirts and messages, but I did respond politely that I’m not interested. Most of these people were either twice my age or way too young or they were really weird!! I think the majority of people don’t read your profile and they go straight to the picture. I did send few messages to some people, but I got no respond. In fact, My message got deleted by them right away. I really don’t understand, because according to their requirements I should have been a perfect match! Anyway, I’m sorry to say this, but there lots of weird people on these dating websites and some of them are using sex to attract other. Sorry! But I’m not going to be fooled and respond to you especially when you send me a message to check out your naked picture online. I'm not going to take off my shirt for anybody online either. LOL. Plus! I'm sad to see lot of Prejudice people online too. Here is an example of one of the letters I have received so far:
Hi There,
Will you be kind enough to soothe my mind? Here is an unfair understanding I have about middle eastern men: Middle Eastern men look for a nice girl to marry and have children with. Then they take the children and abandon their wife to move back to the middle east with their families. I have avoided middle eastern men because of this understanding.
My respond was:
Hi Kelly
I’m sorry that you feel this way about Middle Eastern men, and thank you for opening up and sharing this with me. :)I wouldn’t lie to you. I did hear bad stories like this before and I did hear good love stories as well. I also apologies if this happened to you or to someone you know. I know it is not easy not to stereotype sometime. I’m guilty of stereotyping people as well, but I‘m trying my best not to. There are jerk guys everywhere and not all of them are Middle Eastern and I’m sure you know that already. It is not easy finding the right guy and it is not easy finding the right girl either. It's not even easy finding good trust worthy friends as well. Trust me, I have been hurt before. So I know what is it like. The key is not to give up. It just can’t be that everyone is evil. There must be someone good people out there and you never know. He might be Middle Eastern, African, Asian...Etc. Anyhow, thank you for sharing this with me. If there anything else you would like to share please feel free. I love straight forward questions. In Fact, I don’t even know you, and I have some respect for you already for asking me a blunt question. I’m looking forward to hear from you.
Take care,
( No respond back from her)
Hi There,
Will you be kind enough to soothe my mind? Here is an unfair understanding I have about middle eastern men: Middle Eastern men look for a nice girl to marry and have children with. Then they take the children and abandon their wife to move back to the middle east with their families. I have avoided middle eastern men because of this understanding.
My respond was:
Hi Kelly
I’m sorry that you feel this way about Middle Eastern men, and thank you for opening up and sharing this with me. :)I wouldn’t lie to you. I did hear bad stories like this before and I did hear good love stories as well. I also apologies if this happened to you or to someone you know. I know it is not easy not to stereotype sometime. I’m guilty of stereotyping people as well, but I‘m trying my best not to. There are jerk guys everywhere and not all of them are Middle Eastern and I’m sure you know that already. It is not easy finding the right guy and it is not easy finding the right girl either. It's not even easy finding good trust worthy friends as well. Trust me, I have been hurt before. So I know what is it like. The key is not to give up. It just can’t be that everyone is evil. There must be someone good people out there and you never know. He might be Middle Eastern, African, Asian...Etc. Anyhow, thank you for sharing this with me. If there anything else you would like to share please feel free. I love straight forward questions. In Fact, I don’t even know you, and I have some respect for you already for asking me a blunt question. I’m looking forward to hear from you.
Take care,
( No respond back from her)