Conflicts of Desire
[23:13:29] Mister Shane0r: you should know i've been thinking quite a bit about our conversation sometime in the past...whenever
[23:13:56] Mister Shane0r: the one in which you said it's not a bad thing to want to be in a relationship...to want to be nurturing/nurtured
[23:14:20] tuesdasaurus: and what are you thinking about it?
[23:14:52] Mister Shane0r: i think that i very much agree
[23:15:03] Mister Shane0r: and yet the idea of settling down is still somehow unsettling
[23:15:11] Mister Shane0r: as though i've yet to see/do things
[23:15:19] Mister Shane0r: because, you know, i'm totally seeing/doing these things
[23:15:35] Mister Shane0r: it's the fox and the grapes paradox.
[23:15:46] tuesdasaurus: nice aesop reference
[23:16:16] Mister Shane0r: i enjoy a good aesop parable.
[23:16:34] tuesdasaurus: i looooved those as a kid.
[23:18:29] tuesdasaurus: i think that if you found that kind of relationship, you wouldn't be as unsettled.
[23:19:31] Mister Shane0r: perhaps so
[23:13:56] Mister Shane0r: the one in which you said it's not a bad thing to want to be in a relationship...to want to be nurturing/nurtured
[23:14:20] tuesdasaurus: and what are you thinking about it?
[23:14:52] Mister Shane0r: i think that i very much agree
[23:15:03] Mister Shane0r: and yet the idea of settling down is still somehow unsettling
[23:15:11] Mister Shane0r: as though i've yet to see/do things
[23:15:19] Mister Shane0r: because, you know, i'm totally seeing/doing these things
[23:15:35] Mister Shane0r: it's the fox and the grapes paradox.
[23:15:46] tuesdasaurus: nice aesop reference
[23:16:16] Mister Shane0r: i enjoy a good aesop parable.
[23:16:34] tuesdasaurus: i looooved those as a kid.
[23:18:29] tuesdasaurus: i think that if you found that kind of relationship, you wouldn't be as unsettled.
[23:19:31] Mister Shane0r: perhaps so