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Your Desire: The Basis of Your Mutual Attraction
Sun Mutually Aspects Saturn:
As a couple, you tend to focus too much on the responsibilities and duties you think you owe one another and don't leave yourselves nearly enough time simply to have fun together. Your sex life can suffer greatly from this dynamic! If you pay too much attention to the duty aspects of your relationship, sex will begin to feel like a chore. One or both of you may begin to lose interest in it completely, as you'll feel your natural creative instincts blocked. You may feel judged and criticized by one another or held back from free expression of the love and attraction you once felt toward one another. If this happens you'll be left with a relationship that has all the fidelity and loyalty you ever wanted -- but none of the romance and sensuality to keep it alive. Many astrologers would say that you owe one another a "karmic debt"; whether this is true or not, you will be called on to make lots of sacrifices for one another.
Antonio must be very careful not to harshly criticize Stacie during sex or other intimate moments. Stacie may begin feeling blocked, frustrated and discouraged by Antonio if Stacie's natural instincts are constantly under what begins to feel like attack. Typically, Antonio will feel surprised by Stacie's feelings of frustration and anger, and feel that Stacie is just being overly sensitive to criticism -- or, what Antonio might call "constructive direction." There is an element of truth to both viewpoints: Antonio tends to be too critical of Stacie, and Stacie tends to be too sensitive to the criticism; the combination can be disastrous! Stacie may try to ignore the problem, but ignoring the problem will only cause it to linger. Your sexual and sensual relationship can help both of you mature a great deal; you are able to build a secure, stable sex life. However, the tendency to be too restrictive of one another must not get out of hand or you will both feel severely confined and oppressed by being together.
One strong factor that initially attracted you to one another (perhaps unconsciously) was a feeling that you could share a deep, stable, permanent relationship and settle down together, facing life's responsibilities in a mature way, tackling challenges together such as raising children, becoming financially secure, etc. These concerns, however, can gradually cause your relationship to become too absorbed with "serious" matters and less focused on the fun aspects of intimacy, eventually causing both of you to feel limited and stifled by the relationship. Stacie has a strong tendency to criticize and judge Antonio's actions and intentions, sometimes accurately and sometimes unjustly. Stacie should guard against this tendency to dampen Antonio's enthusiasm; if Antonio doesn't learn to be less sensitive to Stacie's suggestions and criticisms, your sexual relationship will suffer. Stacie's tendency to dominate, control or even repress Antonio in your daily life together makes Antonio feel resentful at times, and Antonio may feel lowered vitality and self-confidence after being with Stacie for a long time. You must make room for light sexual play and remember to flirt with one another. Go out on dates together, even if you have children or other circumstances that may make you just feel like staying in; otherwise both of you will feel burdened by the heavy tone that is set between you.
Venus Mutually Aspects Mars:
There is a high level of sexual and romantic attraction between you; however, your rhythms are occasionally out of synch. When one of you is in a moment of intense desire but the other is feeling more aloof, the result may be jealousy and an attempt on the more amorous partner's part to dominate the other. Thus, while you have a great sexual connection, your relationship in general may experience some fluctuations.
You share an almost irresistible sexual attraction to one another, and it's been this way from the very beginning. You most likely became "more than friends" relatively quickly and early in your involvement. The best thing about your union is that this intensity is unlikely to fade! You have a truly emotional and deep connection, and your sex life is likely to remain active and fulfilling for the duration of your relationship.
Your sexual attraction is intense, even irresistible. Your passion and desire for each other will always remain alive, but will likely have elements of possessiveness or jealousy. It is likely that both of you will abhor any indication that there is competition for your sweetheart's heart.
Stacie's Sun Opposition Antonio's Venus:
Sparks fly when you come into contact with one another! When you touch one another's skin, it's almost like an electrical current passes between you. This helps support the strong feelings of love, attraction, warmth, mutual admiration and appreciation you share. You are able to express your love feelings openly and fully to one another. You can be great friends and companions as well as lovers.
Antonio's Mars Conjunct Stacie's Neptune:
You have a dreamy sexual and romantic interest in one another. Your connection is quite an erotic one; you are likely to find one another to be mysteriously desirable, highly provocative and seductive. Be certain that you are always perfectly honest with one another about what you really want and are willing to give. Stacie, in particular, has a tendency to lead lovers on and should make the conscious effort not to do that with Antonio.
This was a very odd thing to read. I wounder just how true it is?