Jul 14, 2004 08:44
directions: chose the one word or phrase that best describes you most of the time. and be honest!! after you have finished with the first thirty questions total all your answers like ___ many a's ___many b's etc... okay got it?
1. a) opinionated
b) nurturing
c) inventive
d) outgoing
2. a) power-oriented
b) perfectionist
c) indecisive
d) self- centered
3. a) dominant
b) sympathetic
c) tolerant
d) enthusiastic
4. a) self-serving
b) suspicious
c) unsure
d) naive
5. a) decisive
b) loyal
c) contented
d) playful
6. a) arrogant
b) worry prone
c) silently stubborn
d) flighty
7. a) assertive
b) reliable
c) kind
d) socialable
8. a) bossy
b) self-critical
c) reluctant
d) a teaser
9. a) action-oriented
b) analytical
c) easygoing
d) carefree
10. a) critical of others
b) overly sensitive
c) shy
d) obnoxious
11. a) determined
b) detail conscious
c) a good listener
d) party prson
12. a) demanding
b)unforgiving
c) unmotivated
d) vain
13. a) responsible
b) idealistic
c) considerate
d) happy
14. a) impatient
b) moody
c) passive
d) impulsive
15. a)strong-willed
b) respectful
c) patient
d) fun-loving
16. a) argumentative
b) unrealistic
c) directionless
d) an interrupter
17. a) independent
b) dependable
c) even-tempered
d) trusting
18. a) aggresive
b) frequently depressed
c) ambivalent
d) forgetful
19. a) powerful
b) deliberate
c) gentle
d) optimistic
20. a) insensitive
b) judgemental
c) boring
d) undisciplined
21. a) logical
b) emotional
c) agreeable
d) popular
22. a) always right
b) guilt prone
c) unenthusiastic
d) uncommitted
23. a) pragmatic
b) well-behaved
c)accepting
d) spontaneous
24. a) merciless
b)thoughtful
c) uninvolved
d) a show-off
25. a) task-oriented
b) sincere
c) diplomatic
d) lively
26. a) tactless
b)hard to please
c) lazy
d) loud
27. a) direct
b) creative
c) adaptable
d) a peformer
28. a) calculating
b) self-righteous
c) self-depracting
d) disorganized
29. a) confident
b) disciplined
c) pleasant
d) charismatic
30. a) intimidating
b) careful
c) unproductive
d) afraid to face facts
____ Total a's ____ Total b's ____Total c's ____Total d's
Ok here is the rest of the test, again only pick one answer and total your answers up at the end.
31. If I applied for a job, a prospective employer would most likely hire me because I am:
a. driven, direct, and delegating.
b. deliberate, accurate, and reliable.
c. patient, adaptable, and tactful.
d. fun-loving, spirited, and casual
32. When invovled in an intimate relationship, if I feel threatened by my partner, I :
a. fight back with facts and anger
b. cry, feel hurt, and plan revenge
c. become queit, withdrawm, and often hold anger until I blow up over some minor issue later
d. distance myself and avoid further conflict
33. For me, life is most meaningful when it :
a. is task-oriented and productive
b. is filled with people and purpose
c. is free of pressure adn stress
d. allows me to be playful, lighthearted, and optimistic
34. As a child, I was:
a. stubborn, bright, and/or aggressive
b. well-behaved, caring, and/or depressed
c. quiet, easygoing, and/or shy
d. too talkative, happy, and/or playful
35. As an adult, I am:
a. opinionated, determined, and/or bossy
b. responsible, honest, and/or unforgiving
c. accepting, contented, and/or unmotivated
d, charismatic, positive, and/or obnoxious
36. As a parent, I am: (just kind of guess on this one)
a. demanding, quick-tempered, and/or uncompromising
b. concerned, sensitive, and/or critical
c. permissive, easily persuaded, and/or often overwhelmed
d. playful, casual, and/or irresponsible
37. In an argument with a friend, I am most likely to be:
a. verbally stubborn about facts
b. concerned about others; feelings and principles
c. silenty stubborn, uncomfortable, and/or confused
d. loud, uncomfortable, and/or compromising
38. If my friend was in trouble, I would be:
a. protective, resourceful, and recommend solutions
b. concerned, empathetic, and loyal--- regardless of the problem
c. supportive, patient, adn a good listener
d. nonjudgemental, optimistic, and downplaying the seriousness of the situation
39. When making decisions, I am:
a. assertive, articulate, and logical
b. deliberate, precise, and catious
c. indecisive, timid, and reluctant
d. impulsive, uncommited, and inconsistent
40. When I fail, I feel:
a. silently self-critical, yet verbally stubborn adn defensive
b. guilty, self-critical, adn vulnerable to depression-- I dwell on it
c. unsettled and fearful, but i keep it to myself
d. embarrassed and nervous--seeking to escape the situation
41. If someone crossed me:
a. I am angered, and cunningly plan ways to get even quickly
b. i feel deeply hurt and find it almost impossible to forgive completely. Generally, getting even is not enough
c. I am silently hurt and plan to get even and/or completely avoid the other person
d. i want to avoid confrontation, consider the situation not important enough to bother with, and/or sek other friends
42. Work is:
a. a most productive way to spend ones time
b. a healthy activity, which should be done right if doen at all. work should be done before one plays
c. a positive activity as long as it is something i enjoy and dont feel pressured to accomplish
d. a necessary evil, much less inviting than play
43.In social situations i am most often:
a. feared by others
b. admired by others
c. protected by others
d. envied by others
44. In a relationship i am most concerned with being:
a. approved of and right
b. understood, appreciated, and intimate
c. respected, tolerant, admn peace ful
d. praised, having fun, and feeling free
45. To feel alive and positive i seek:
a. adventure, leadership, and lots of action
b. security, creativity, and purpose
c. acceptance and safety
d. excitement, playful productivity, and the company of others
_____Total a's _______Total b's _______Total c's _____Total b's
now total all your a's adn b's and etc.
____red(a) _____blue(b) ______white(c) _____yellow(d)
The color with the highest number is your personality color!
REDS----THE POWER WIELDERS
Reds have the most dominant, intimidating personality. Expressing themselves emotionally is uncomfortable and creates the vulnerability they typically void.
active & productive visionary insensitive & selfish "KING OF THE JUNGLE" demanding & critical insecure must be right competitive and bold tenacious & taxing assertive & determined disagreeable resourceful & self- reliant relentless & impatient calculating & manipulative
BLUE-----THE DO-GOODERS
Life cannot bestow on anyone a more gratifying reward then sincere appreciation and trust of a Blue friend, employer or family member.
emotinal & admired committed & loyal perfectionist highly demanding self- disciplined & stable self-sacrificing & nuturing unforgiving & resentful worried & guilty appropriate & sincere purposeful & dedicated moody & complex self-righteous & insecure
WHITE-----THE PEACEKEEPERS
Whites offer us all a model for gentle human dignity.
peacful & diplomatic insecure & nonassertive doubtful & dependent tolerant & pateint impressionable withholds feelings blendable & kind unproductive dreams unmotivated accepting boring & lazy timid & emotionally unsure gentle & even- tempered aimless & misguided idecisive silent & stubborn
YELLOW-------THE FUN LOVERS
Happy is as happy does. Yellow people love themselevs because they know exactly what they love to do and always find the time and resources to do it.
happy & fun self-centered & uncommitted irresponsible enthusiastic & carfree playful & exciting superficial disorganized & incomplete impulsive & undisciplined charismatic & popular naive & trusting flippant chatterbox
WHICH ONE ARE YOU?
i am blue and my secondary color is white