Had a number of good conversations with a number of good people...`
And I am reminded that everyone is on their own path, with their own revelations happening to them, in their own time. Much as I'd live to steer my children based on my experiences, well, my parents did not steer me, so I can only be available for color commentary.
And as much as I'd like to steer a friend though widowhood, he has to make his own way.
But, what I would like to tell Grey is that, I'm really over the dead husband thing. He was a good man, but he wasn't nearly the man I deserved. And I gave up a third of my life, because he was my children's father. And I'm over it.
And you are the man of my dreams. It takes time. And this time has come. We are going to grow old together. I think. :)
And as much as I'd like to steer a friend though widowhood, he has to make his own way.
But, what I would like to tell Grey is that, I'm really over the dead husband thing. He was a good man, but he wasn't nearly the man I deserved. And I gave up a third of my life, because he was my children's father. And I'm over it.
And you are the man of my dreams. It takes time. And this time has come. We are going to grow old together. I think. :)