I need advice
Okay. Andrew has been in Germany for a month. He got back on Saturday and he's only home for a week before he leaves again until the end of March. A few days ago I wrote on his facebook wall and this is what I said:
"so i was looking at your pictures and trying to figure out why you looked so different. and then i realized. you shaved your beardy thing. please grow it back. i will taunt you endlessly otherwise.
i miss you! try to squeeze me in for a couple of hours when you get back!"
His brother Steven's girlfriend wrote on his wall above me and said this:
"Umm Andrew...why is this girl below me trying to tell you what to do and asking you to spend time with her?? I don't think Alexis would appreciate that and neither do I...k thanks, that is all...bye :)"
Now, I've never met this girl before, so I have no idea what right she has to say something like that on his wall for everyone to see. If she wants to be a bitch about it she should just send him a message instead of making it completely public.
So, Andrew said he was getting back Saturday evening. I called but his phone was off so I figured his flight got delayed because it's an international flight, etc. On Sunday he still hadn't turned his phone on and hadn't called me back. When he finally did call me back Sunday evening he told me that he wasn't allowed to turn his phone on because his girlfriend, Alexis, didn't want him to talk to me, and even more, told him he couldn't hang out with me while he was home. WTF?! So I got mad at Andrew and yelled at him and all that. Then I felt bad so I sent a text to Andrew telling him that even though I still think it's ridiculous for Alexis to tell him who he could hang out with and that I wish he would tell her to shove it up her ass and hang out with me anyway, I would understand if he decided to continue to be a wet noodle and not hang out with me. When you send a text to someone, you assume that person is going to read it. Well, apparently Alexis read it before Andrew did and didn't ask permission to read it and now she's even more pissed and Andrew says that I'm wrong for saying what I did. Which, granted, my language was a little strong, but if I thought she was going to read it, I wouldn't have said it the way I did. But I don't think I'm wrong in assuming that the person I sent the message to would be the first person to read the message. I'm so pissed.
In all situations of my life recently, I have had to be the one to say I'm wrong and to apologize. In most of the situations I don't think I'm totally wrong. Am I totally wrong here? I need some perspective, because seriously, I don't know if I'm right or just crazy. Help please.
"so i was looking at your pictures and trying to figure out why you looked so different. and then i realized. you shaved your beardy thing. please grow it back. i will taunt you endlessly otherwise.
i miss you! try to squeeze me in for a couple of hours when you get back!"
His brother Steven's girlfriend wrote on his wall above me and said this:
"Umm Andrew...why is this girl below me trying to tell you what to do and asking you to spend time with her?? I don't think Alexis would appreciate that and neither do I...k thanks, that is all...bye :)"
Now, I've never met this girl before, so I have no idea what right she has to say something like that on his wall for everyone to see. If she wants to be a bitch about it she should just send him a message instead of making it completely public.
So, Andrew said he was getting back Saturday evening. I called but his phone was off so I figured his flight got delayed because it's an international flight, etc. On Sunday he still hadn't turned his phone on and hadn't called me back. When he finally did call me back Sunday evening he told me that he wasn't allowed to turn his phone on because his girlfriend, Alexis, didn't want him to talk to me, and even more, told him he couldn't hang out with me while he was home. WTF?! So I got mad at Andrew and yelled at him and all that. Then I felt bad so I sent a text to Andrew telling him that even though I still think it's ridiculous for Alexis to tell him who he could hang out with and that I wish he would tell her to shove it up her ass and hang out with me anyway, I would understand if he decided to continue to be a wet noodle and not hang out with me. When you send a text to someone, you assume that person is going to read it. Well, apparently Alexis read it before Andrew did and didn't ask permission to read it and now she's even more pissed and Andrew says that I'm wrong for saying what I did. Which, granted, my language was a little strong, but if I thought she was going to read it, I wouldn't have said it the way I did. But I don't think I'm wrong in assuming that the person I sent the message to would be the first person to read the message. I'm so pissed.
In all situations of my life recently, I have had to be the one to say I'm wrong and to apologize. In most of the situations I don't think I'm totally wrong. Am I totally wrong here? I need some perspective, because seriously, I don't know if I'm right or just crazy. Help please.