First time
For ages, people have been making a big deal about losing their virginity. Girls want it to be with someone they love, guys just...want to hurry up and get rid of it.
I felt like the guys. To me, my first time wasn't important. My first time wasn't going to be my last time, so I didn't see why it mattered. I didn't love the guy I lost it to, and even though it was a horrible time, I don't regret it. Once I lost my virginity, it was easier to just jump right into it with the next guy.
I don't think anyone's first time is the way they want it to be. It isn't in a cabin somewhere with candles while it's snowing outside. It isn't on the beach on a blanket with a full moon. And most likely the person you lose your virginity to isn't going to be the person you spend the rest of your life with.
And think of it this way. With each person you have sex with, it's like losing your virginity...to them. So there are plenty of opportunities to make sex special. And even if you have sex with the same person for an extended amount of time, there's always other times to make it the most awesome sex you've had to date.
So I think what I'm trying to say is that I don't see the point in "waiting for the right one" or making your first time special. You have the rest of your life to make great memories with someone you will love and cherish and enjoy sexing with great vigor.
This, of course, is the way I feel about it, and I understand if some people feel differently.
I felt like the guys. To me, my first time wasn't important. My first time wasn't going to be my last time, so I didn't see why it mattered. I didn't love the guy I lost it to, and even though it was a horrible time, I don't regret it. Once I lost my virginity, it was easier to just jump right into it with the next guy.
I don't think anyone's first time is the way they want it to be. It isn't in a cabin somewhere with candles while it's snowing outside. It isn't on the beach on a blanket with a full moon. And most likely the person you lose your virginity to isn't going to be the person you spend the rest of your life with.
And think of it this way. With each person you have sex with, it's like losing your virginity...to them. So there are plenty of opportunities to make sex special. And even if you have sex with the same person for an extended amount of time, there's always other times to make it the most awesome sex you've had to date.
So I think what I'm trying to say is that I don't see the point in "waiting for the right one" or making your first time special. You have the rest of your life to make great memories with someone you will love and cherish and enjoy sexing with great vigor.
This, of course, is the way I feel about it, and I understand if some people feel differently.