i need help
ok its 1:11am and i need help. go figure right well here is the thing. im dating a very wonderful woman and i care for her dearly but in talking with her she tells me she wants a kid and a father for this child *looks down pants*...yeah no cock!!!! and she wants it possibly like 5 years down the road when she is out of college. an im thinking why the fuck did you ever agree to go out with me....but i never said that out loud. im told that over time ppl change their minds about things. and yet i find no comfort in that theory. so do i stay with her knowing that 5 years from now i may be out of the picture or not or do i end it and find out she changed her mind many years down the road....lol this is the most complicated relationship i have ever been in can you tell? honestly though im not ready to give up on her...when the time comes should she still want a child i will admit defeat and pull myself out of the picture because i want her to have the things in life she wants...even if its not me.