Moving sucks. Don't ever do it.
Er, signed our souls away. I mean, no commitment yet, we only paid to hold the place and for processing, but presuming we pass background and credit checks… yeah.
Huge amounts of drama with looking at places today. Problems with my employment/credit. Hate feeling completely passive, but there’s just been nothing that I can actually do in this process- it’s all his decisions, his money, his phone calls, him doing all the work and I hate it but there’s nothing that I can take over because it’s all his thing and good GOD feeling this helpless and passive for a year might kill me.
The place he finally settled on was 125 more than max budget and about 400 dollars more than ideal hope. I am a bit worried that he simply gave in to the hard sell and signed because he didn’t want to have to deal with looking anymore, but he denies that so okay. It’s his money, frankly, and there’s that passivity again. But it will be a nice place to live. Move-in is 4th of September, so that means that we are going to need to store the stuff before the move and also does that mean we’re not going back on the 10th? What do I do here? Need to figure out how soon I can actually SIGN the damn lease so I know when I can go back to Seattle, what I can do about Turkey trip plane tickets and such.
Also drama with the car. Bleh. Of all the stupid things to have to spend so much energy having to deal with, the hotel not having a parking lot and the people at the company being completely clueless and unresponsive on this front and having to drive around for half an hour at night before finally paying for an overnight lot? Bleh.
Huge amounts of drama with looking at places today. Problems with my employment/credit. Hate feeling completely passive, but there’s just been nothing that I can actually do in this process- it’s all his decisions, his money, his phone calls, him doing all the work and I hate it but there’s nothing that I can take over because it’s all his thing and good GOD feeling this helpless and passive for a year might kill me.
The place he finally settled on was 125 more than max budget and about 400 dollars more than ideal hope. I am a bit worried that he simply gave in to the hard sell and signed because he didn’t want to have to deal with looking anymore, but he denies that so okay. It’s his money, frankly, and there’s that passivity again. But it will be a nice place to live. Move-in is 4th of September, so that means that we are going to need to store the stuff before the move and also does that mean we’re not going back on the 10th? What do I do here? Need to figure out how soon I can actually SIGN the damn lease so I know when I can go back to Seattle, what I can do about Turkey trip plane tickets and such.
Also drama with the car. Bleh. Of all the stupid things to have to spend so much energy having to deal with, the hotel not having a parking lot and the people at the company being completely clueless and unresponsive on this front and having to drive around for half an hour at night before finally paying for an overnight lot? Bleh.