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left for me to find upon coming home:
[10:07] LinuxChix2000: I just love how you spin things in your own favor
[10:07] *** Auto-response sent to LinuxChix2000: I am currently away from the computer.
[10:07] LinuxChix2000: must be nice to live in Donnyland
[10:08] LinuxChix2000: I am sure you enjoy spreading your "fake" conversation with the rest of the family too
[10:08] LinuxChix2000: you never had a problem alienating me from everyone else
[10:32] *** "LinuxChix2000" signed off at Sun Jan 21 10:32:30 2007.
posted to her journal:
On a more personal note, I have a request to make. In my growing emotional state during this pregnancy, I would hope that one of my siblings (not naming names, cuz you know who you are) would back off with the personal attacks. Honestly, when you pick arguments with a pregnant lady, you might certainly get an earful of things you do not want to hear, let alone admit to yourself.
Instead of trying to incriminate the emotional victim to the rest of the famly and family friends, the least this sibling could do is focus on his own life instead of trying to analyze and beat down on his own sister's life and relationship at a time when she should be focusing on what is truly important, the birth of her first child. It is truly in poor taste to be so selfish and spinning gossip so fast it makes your head nearly fall off.
P.S sibling: I never said I hated your ex-wife. I simply hated the emotional train-wreck she left you as during your divorce and your willingness to jump back into a relationship with the same person without flinching. So like I said, stop spinning what really happened. That is about as far as my concern is for you in your relationship. Chalk it up to loving sisterly concern. God forbid anyone show they care about you getting hurt. There will be no one-sided apology for the conversation you are referring to on your journal either. I do believe that there was more than one person getting their toes stepped on.
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the queen of spin herself. Oh, woe is me. Of course in messages sent to her I did tell her I do not expect an apology for the way she acted and allowed her to blame it all on her pregnant hormones. I just love how she makes it sound as if I am brow beating her into submission with personal attacks though.
You may not have told me that you hate her, but for the vile things you were calling her, and comments made to our mother, you might as well have said it. Loving sister concern, or someone who has to stick their nose and their opinion into every little thing whether it was asked to be there or not?
Like I said, You are the one that began it all. If you care to apologize you know where I am, until then, I leave you with the message I wrote in response to your IM's:
oh so now we never had a conversation, thats good to know. I really wish you could take a step back and take a look at the things you are saying little sister. You are being very stupid. You just can't see it because you have your blinders up. Hate, Anger, Superiority Complex. All hiding things you do not wish to see. Sorry I had to be the one to take the bullet, but if I have to live a life of isolation from you because you wish to live in denial, then that is the way things must be.
[10:07] LinuxChix2000: I just love how you spin things in your own favor
[10:07] *** Auto-response sent to LinuxChix2000: I am currently away from the computer.
[10:07] LinuxChix2000: must be nice to live in Donnyland
[10:08] LinuxChix2000: I am sure you enjoy spreading your "fake" conversation with the rest of the family too
[10:08] LinuxChix2000: you never had a problem alienating me from everyone else
[10:32] *** "LinuxChix2000" signed off at Sun Jan 21 10:32:30 2007.
posted to her journal:
On a more personal note, I have a request to make. In my growing emotional state during this pregnancy, I would hope that one of my siblings (not naming names, cuz you know who you are) would back off with the personal attacks. Honestly, when you pick arguments with a pregnant lady, you might certainly get an earful of things you do not want to hear, let alone admit to yourself.
Instead of trying to incriminate the emotional victim to the rest of the famly and family friends, the least this sibling could do is focus on his own life instead of trying to analyze and beat down on his own sister's life and relationship at a time when she should be focusing on what is truly important, the birth of her first child. It is truly in poor taste to be so selfish and spinning gossip so fast it makes your head nearly fall off.
P.S sibling: I never said I hated your ex-wife. I simply hated the emotional train-wreck she left you as during your divorce and your willingness to jump back into a relationship with the same person without flinching. So like I said, stop spinning what really happened. That is about as far as my concern is for you in your relationship. Chalk it up to loving sisterly concern. God forbid anyone show they care about you getting hurt. There will be no one-sided apology for the conversation you are referring to on your journal either. I do believe that there was more than one person getting their toes stepped on.
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the queen of spin herself. Oh, woe is me. Of course in messages sent to her I did tell her I do not expect an apology for the way she acted and allowed her to blame it all on her pregnant hormones. I just love how she makes it sound as if I am brow beating her into submission with personal attacks though.
You may not have told me that you hate her, but for the vile things you were calling her, and comments made to our mother, you might as well have said it. Loving sister concern, or someone who has to stick their nose and their opinion into every little thing whether it was asked to be there or not?
Like I said, You are the one that began it all. If you care to apologize you know where I am, until then, I leave you with the message I wrote in response to your IM's:
oh so now we never had a conversation, thats good to know. I really wish you could take a step back and take a look at the things you are saying little sister. You are being very stupid. You just can't see it because you have your blinders up. Hate, Anger, Superiority Complex. All hiding things you do not wish to see. Sorry I had to be the one to take the bullet, but if I have to live a life of isolation from you because you wish to live in denial, then that is the way things must be.