i need some help understanding here
so i live with three people that i care about enough to take a bullet for however sometimes i dont quite understand them...like today for instance they told me it was "my turn" to wash the dishes...granted that sounds reasonable enough right? wrong...both of our sinks are full of dirty dishes from when my roommates cooked dinner the night they got home from the beach...here's a lil insight on these "dishes" of which i speak...there are about 3 or 4 bowls that had mac and cheese hamburger stuff in them, 4 plates that have dried cake icing on them a pan that had god knows what in it and the pot the mac n cheese was made in...on the stove there is a bowl if what looks like it was cream of chicken or something just sitting there drying to the bowl...not a plesant thing if u ask me...there were no cups mentioned in the dish list b/c i washed them b/c while my roomies were at the beach some friends of mine came to stay and they drank out of 3 cups and we each used a shot glass...so i washed every cup that has been used since they have been home...how is it fair that i have to wash these dishes when i havent used them...they keep saying well we wash ur dishes occasionally when u use them...ok fine but that's still just a cup b/c i dont have food in this apt so i dont eat here...i can wash my own cup and most of the time i do...sometimes i'm in a hurry and leave it till i get home or maybe even a lil longer but i dont expect them to wash my cup...i'm capable of doing that myself and they are too so y cant everyone just do their own damn dishes and not expect me to do them whan they've built up so...i have no idea...someone once told me not to live with friends...i guess i should have listened