It's done.. update.
Yesterday I found out that I have a job and got my top choice hospital here in Detroit, so that was good news. That means I will be training here as an OB/GYN resident for the next four years. Nikole and I are pretty happy because even though we can't get back to the west coast, at least we can stay here where she has a job she likes and we know people after living here 2 years already.