On A Break from Re-Wiring
Had to get out from under that console for a few moments.
24 Relationship Questions:
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1) Single, Crushin', Interested, or in a Relationship?:
Married and loving it
2) Are you happy with where you are?
absolutely
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Depends on the person
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes. But they are long ago and far away now, so it no longer matters. I found better.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is acceptable?
No. Cheating implies by its very definition deception. While I have no problem with open relationships, outright deception is devastating. If there is intent to deceive, something is very wrong in the relationship to start with.
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I didn't last time.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Talked about it, then did it!
8) Do you want children?
Yes. I didn't when I was young, but I find it would be a wonderful and welcome addition to my family.
9)Do you want to be married when you have kids?
Duh. And since I'm married, isn't that convenient. (who thinks up these things?)
10) Would you consider adoption?
Yes
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think a cool way to let you know would be?:
*laughs* How have people told me in the past? Douglas told me over pizza after a late night at the lab. Brendan said he liked me while we were walking on the coast. Mikhail chased after me on Charles Street Breidge, begging to paint my portrait. But the best ones? Radek told me while sitting on a balcony, Rodney admitted it in email, John came over to talk and brought me chocolate he stole from Rodney, and Carson said it while having tea in his office. *big smiles* Those were the most wonderful ever.
12) Do you think playing hard to get works?
No, it's manipulation
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?:
No, if they don't like me for myself, there's no point.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yes. Well, love at first word.
15) Are you romantic?
I think so.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
I don't know about my changing them, but I'll support someone who wants to make a change. *blush* *points to Rodney* Maybe him, a little.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be
Exactly where I did get married. It was beautiful.
18) Sex buddies - good or bad?:
While I'm not adverse to my husbands doing that so long as I know about it and the person's "clean", I myself can't give to someone unless I feel a truly deep emotional connection with them. I can't do casual.
19) Do you give in easily when fighting?
Not normally
20) Do you have feelings for someone right now, whether they know or not?:
Of course, and they know, because I'm married to them.
21) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you messed that up?
Yes. But I'm glad now I didn't, or I wouldn't be here.
22.) Have you broken a heart?:
Not that I know of.
23.)What will happen if you come and find another person in bed with your girl/boy?
Depends? Another of my spouses? hell, I might just hop in if they want. ;) Someone else, providing I knew about it, I'd give them their privacy. Someone I didn't know about, or it's not consensual, I may consider bodily harm.
24.)What would you say about your last EX?:
What is there to say? He was a shallow, self-centered, idealistic prick who had his head so far up his own ass he could do his own tonsil check. I'm glad he's gone.
24 Relationship Questions:
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1) Single, Crushin', Interested, or in a Relationship?:
Married and loving it
2) Are you happy with where you are?
absolutely
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Depends on the person
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes. But they are long ago and far away now, so it no longer matters. I found better.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is acceptable?
No. Cheating implies by its very definition deception. While I have no problem with open relationships, outright deception is devastating. If there is intent to deceive, something is very wrong in the relationship to start with.
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I didn't last time.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Talked about it, then did it!
8) Do you want children?
Yes. I didn't when I was young, but I find it would be a wonderful and welcome addition to my family.
9)Do you want to be married when you have kids?
Duh. And since I'm married, isn't that convenient. (who thinks up these things?)
10) Would you consider adoption?
Yes
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think a cool way to let you know would be?:
*laughs* How have people told me in the past? Douglas told me over pizza after a late night at the lab. Brendan said he liked me while we were walking on the coast. Mikhail chased after me on Charles Street Breidge, begging to paint my portrait. But the best ones? Radek told me while sitting on a balcony, Rodney admitted it in email, John came over to talk and brought me chocolate he stole from Rodney, and Carson said it while having tea in his office. *big smiles* Those were the most wonderful ever.
12) Do you think playing hard to get works?
No, it's manipulation
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?:
No, if they don't like me for myself, there's no point.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yes. Well, love at first word.
15) Are you romantic?
I think so.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
I don't know about my changing them, but I'll support someone who wants to make a change. *blush* *points to Rodney* Maybe him, a little.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be
Exactly where I did get married. It was beautiful.
18) Sex buddies - good or bad?:
While I'm not adverse to my husbands doing that so long as I know about it and the person's "clean", I myself can't give to someone unless I feel a truly deep emotional connection with them. I can't do casual.
19) Do you give in easily when fighting?
Not normally
20) Do you have feelings for someone right now, whether they know or not?:
Of course, and they know, because I'm married to them.
21) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you messed that up?
Yes. But I'm glad now I didn't, or I wouldn't be here.
22.) Have you broken a heart?:
Not that I know of.
23.)What will happen if you come and find another person in bed with your girl/boy?
Depends? Another of my spouses? hell, I might just hop in if they want. ;) Someone else, providing I knew about it, I'd give them their privacy. Someone I didn't know about, or it's not consensual, I may consider bodily harm.
24.)What would you say about your last EX?:
What is there to say? He was a shallow, self-centered, idealistic prick who had his head so far up his own ass he could do his own tonsil check. I'm glad he's gone.