Helpful Relationship Tips

Jul 13, 2005 19:22


Here are some helpful tips for women on how to keep & make your boyfriend or husband happy:

1) It's very important that you and him obtain communication skills in your relationship, so both of you are able to understand each other's needs and desires.

2) A woman must trust her man by having faith in him that he'll follow through with his promises.  Let him shower you with gifts, praise, and devotion which indicates that he loves you; you are obligated to reveal your affections for him only if you believe he deserves them.

3) Your boyfriend is allowed to live his own life which includes: his friends, family (mom, dad, & siblings, ect.), job, and you of course, so don't exert yourself if he decides to hang with his friends or has to work late.  It's up to him to schedule enough time with each individual.  One exception is if your married, and his life revolves around you.

4) Like the old saying goes 'sticks and stones can break my bones, but words will never hurt me'.  He is flirting on the internet by role-playing or just typing words in general to another girl, but he is not in the same room with that person, right.  You can do two things: First, you can ignore his little flirtatious fun and just hope he is just being silly.  Lastly, you can talk to him insisting he explain his actions, and you can ask him what he would prefer a virtual girlfriend or a real-life one.

5) Most importantly he must decide whether to stay faithful and loyal to his girlfriend or wife.  He refuses to show her that he truly loves and cares for her; he's always overly "friendly" toward other women.  You have the right to dump his sorry ass, so you can move on to the next guy you wheel in, since there are plenty of fish in the sea.

6) Repeat tip number one often!!!

7)  He can have friends who are girls, but he must know his limitations.  For example, he should decide whether to cheat on his girlfriend/wife or stay loyal to his sweetie, so she can satisfy him.

8)  Women satisfy your husband sexually in bed and be affectionate toward him so to keep the romance in your marriage while making him extremely happy.  Of course, this only applies to married couples, however, if a couple is comfortable about having sex part of their relationship; then they can take this tip into consideration, too.

9) Educate yourselves about the use of contraceptives and how to have safe sex by using protection. The 100% sex protection is abstinence, of course!

Basically, the key to a successful relationship is to express your emotions for each other like: love and devotion, but you both need to be honest as well.  Men want a woman who can at like a lady in public and be a freak in the bed *lol*.  Seriously, men want to be praised and loved by their woman; by receiving your honesty, they believe that you truly love them for who they are and are not playing mind games with them. However, if he's a good guy who loves and supports you, then he's doing all in his power to show you his strong devotion for you which is very hard for a guy to do, but if he's not or just playing you than dump the bastard.

Some Helpful Sites

Men’s Key to Women: http://www.ivillage.com/ (best)

Women’s Guide to Men: http://www.askmen.com/ (not the best)

http://www.menshealth.com (pretty good)

Perfect site Protective Sex: http://www.epigee.org/guide/ (excellent)
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