Mar 05, 2008 21:50
I'm so glad I have friends that get me. By that, I mean friends that get my personality and my sense of humor. It appears that I've offended some guys at the Flood College group. One of the guys from the small group told me afterwards tonight that two of the other guys were a bit put off by me because a couple of weeks ago one of them said he had his wallet stolen, and when he said that he left it somewhere, I jokingly said "well I don't feel bad then, don't leave your wallet places." Well they apparently took it to heart and feel like I'm a prick. Now, I don't care if they don't like me. From the beginning I've felt that there's no way I'm gonna become friends with these guys. They're too different from me. They're into different stuff and they have way different senses of humor. I don't not like them, there's just not going to be any great friendships blooming between us.
At first I was a little upset, because it would seem that yet again, I don't have a small group that i fit in with that I can go to regularly. But then it really just made me grateful for the friends I have. I've been fortunate enough to find friends that I fit in with. Who knows what state I'd be in without them. We may not have spent much time together recently, but when I see them it's great and I couldn't be happier.
On the other hand, this is kind of a reminder that sometimes there are things that just don't need to be said. Especially when the people around don't know me that well. This is kind of the same thing that angered Josh from time to time. The guy that talked to me said it was just the commentary that I gave sometimes, which is funny because I don't talk in the group much. It kind of upset me, because it's not like I was the only one giving commentary. But apparently mine was the only one that upset anyone. But oh well. Something don't need to be said, but others people get upset at for stupid reasons. What can you do? I yam who I yam.