"You can't sleep with your dysfunctional ex who you're getting back together with." "But..." "No! I mean it! I'll even stop sleeping with you! Or with my primary! Anything to convince you it's okay for me to tell you who you get to have sex with!"
I'm not even sure how much this is "having sex with" and how much if this is "having contact with"... If I'm making my way through the alphabet soup properly, this all sounds like it's going on online with occasional real world meetings between 2 of the people... or maybe between 2 pairs of the people (A and the OP and C and N) - but I'm absolutely unclear whether or not the OP has even met this person in real life.
Maybe I just fail at reading... or maybe these people need to lay off the Warcraft.
Pretty sure it's all cyber. Possibly in SL or WoW, and they get off on bumping their toons against each other.
I'm all about exploring the frontiers of human interaction, but this reads as all kinds of sad. Time to get off the computer, go to a bar, get drunk, start a fight, get laid.
I think it's two pairs of people, where each pair is in person but the two pairs are not?
But I don't want to invalidate online sexytimes. If I had a partner five hundred miles away, most of our sexytimes would be online too. It's just as ridiculous to want to control that as to want to control in-person boinkerings.
and if I were the primary, I would be damn pissed off that my partner offered to stop boinkering me in a bid to control their other partner.
I wouldn't have a partner 500 mile away for an indefinite period of time and if it's for longer than a 6-18 months then we could be looking at stepping the relationship *way* back. Yes, I know that there are people who manage to make this work and well, but few do and I recognize that *I* am not one of those few.
And if I did there would be no anyone dictating who can sleep with who, that's a fucking recipe for disaster (as if it's not trainwrecky enough).
"But..."
"No! I mean it! I'll even stop sleeping with you! Or with my primary! Anything to convince you it's okay for me to tell you who you get to have sex with!"
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Maybe I just fail at reading... or maybe these people need to lay off the Warcraft.
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I'm all about exploring the frontiers of human interaction, but this reads as all kinds of sad. Time to get off the computer, go to a bar, get drunk, start a fight, get laid.
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But I don't want to invalidate online sexytimes. If I had a partner five hundred miles away, most of our sexytimes would be online too. It's just as ridiculous to want to control that as to want to control in-person boinkerings.
and if I were the primary, I would be damn pissed off that my partner offered to stop boinkering me in a bid to control their other partner.
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And if I did there would be no anyone dictating who can sleep with who, that's a fucking recipe for disaster (as if it's not trainwrecky enough).
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