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http://www.livejournal.com/community/polyamory/1587025.html?thread=25653841#t25653841
. If I may be so bold as to ask, why are you not involved in these
. encounters? Is it a matter of happenstance? Has your wife told you that
. you are not allowed? If so, it's awfully one-sided.
dude, just because the other's interested in the wife doesn't imply she's interested in the husband, even if her orientation is compatible. it's only 'one sided' if he's prohibited from finding his own sweetie.
(not that the situation's good, it's just /that/'s not the problem)
. If I may be so bold as to ask, why are you not involved in these
. encounters? Is it a matter of happenstance? Has your wife told you that
. you are not allowed? If so, it's awfully one-sided.
dude, just because the other's interested in the wife doesn't imply she's interested in the husband, even if her orientation is compatible. it's only 'one sided' if he's prohibited from finding his own sweetie.
(not that the situation's good, it's just /that/'s not the problem)