My Offical Response
First of all. I'm not going to claim I didn't do anything wrong.
I know I did. I made some mistakes. But these mistakes were made in specialize circumstances that won't be repeated. And Or I corrected myself afterwords.
I'm not crazy. Or Psycho. Or even stalking people. The first couple weeks, we have 3rd partys over staying the night and they can attend to the fact that i haven't do anything that would be close.
Ada and I aren't a couple any more for people who are a little behind. I'm not going to go in to specifics.
So. Ada breaks up with me over instant messenger at work. Then tells me I have to find my own way home from work(Mind you she's been my reliable transportation for Months. And I even pay her $100 a month in gas to do this. So she's doing me a favor and I'm paying her for it..)
So I have to walk home from Maitland to the house Next to UCF. It's fifteen miles. I get off at 6pm and it takes my 5 1/2 hours to walk home.
I get home I'm in SOOO much pain. My calfs, knees and thighs hurt soo much. That's not even including the blisters on my feet.
The next day. Saturday(I walked home on a friday night) Ada is silent to me all day. She JUST BROKE up with me. And I have NO sense of closure. She refuses to talk to me.
The details get a bit mum. She makes a drink or two. I have a couple myself because of the pain. She's on her pc and I walk over to try to talk to her. She tells me to get the fuck out of her face. I tell her I want to talk about the situation. She says she's DONE talking about what's happening.
I am in pain... I have a bit of liquor in me... So I don't back up. She physically starts to assault me because I won't get out of her way. She punches me in the face a few times. Hits me in the chest. I don't block it. I don't raise my hand. I don't hit her back. I was in her way which was wrong of me. But I didn't do ANYTHING to her.
She then decides she's going to leave because she doesn't want to talk about it. Bad decision is i grab her keys and plead again. Please talk to me. She tells me to give her, her keys. Once when I don't do like she ask. She proceeds to scratch me. (short of drawing blood, but I'm still have scabs from it), punches me again, and Bites hard enough to leave a bruise for a week.. I didn't hit her. I didn't raise my hand. I didn't push her. The only thing I did was grab her keys..
Eventually I let go of the keys and I ask her again to please stay so we can talk about it. She refuses. I stand in the door way.
Ada is maybe an Inch or two shorter then me. I don't tower over her. And she outweighs me by at least twenty pounds. I am not IMPOSING standing next to her. She doesn't feel threatened. I have never. EVER done anything remotely CLOSE to violent.
She eventually pushes pass me to go to the door. and leaves.
My decisions in the situation were poor. I should of let her go, not stood in her way. But I did not, and NEVER resorted to violence. I yelled. and screamed and I was very VERY upset that day. But I was broken up with the day before, WHILE at work.. Over IM. I walked Home 15 miles.. I was in pain., and I have some Liquor in me too to reinforce those bad decisions.
Instead of talking rationally to me like i asked. Multiple times. She resorts to violence to get her way. There was a back door. She didn't use it. She could of just took a walk around the block instead of needing the keys. But she didn't do that as well.
I think we are both to blame for this bad situation. I am NOT innocent. But I am not the person I have been made out to be.
... The Next day... She goes to work. While she's at work. I clean the kitchen, do the dishes, WALK 3 miles(1.5 miles there and back on my Hurting legs) to Publix to buy food and I made dinner. I actually made enough to make dinner for the entire week. And I didn't ask for ANYTHING in return.
...
I was really upset that day. I made a ton of poor decisions. Being in pain, and being tipsy didn't help the situation. But doesn't require a Restraining order against me... There is NO reason she shouldn't feel safe in the house with me.
There has never been any form of repeat of that ether.
The other night. I tried to talk calmly and rationally to Ada again. Still. She refuses to talk and tells me to get out of her room. I never raise my voice. I don't yell. I just talk to her. She shuts the door in my face. I continue to talk to her calmly on the other side of her.
As for the interrogation in to her sex life? She fucked people on MY BED. I went to bed. Rolled over and her vibrator was in my FACE. She felt it was perfectly ok to fuck in my bed. Never apologized or anything. I just asked her who she slept with, in the bed. Then when i got conflicting stories I asked one more person. They said the same thing. I eventually APOLOGIZED and that was the end of it.
The reason for the fight the other Night? I got upset because She's been a bitch to me around the house. And I've been trying to be nice. I've done cleaning around the house like we both promised to do, and she's never done. Windows stopped booting. I went out, bought the new hard drive, reinstalled windows. Got everything working for her again. I've made a point to make sure to bring home food if she needs it. I got upset with her for being the way she is. I.e. walking away when I'm still talking to her, etc. Then I apologized a few minutes later after i calmed down, and asked her to be nicer to me. I said that if she could be nicer to me around the house. I would be much easier to get along with. And if I'm easier to get along with. She's less stressed. I said we would BOTH benefit if she just tried a little harder. I guess doing ANYTHING for me is too much. She screamed at me to get out of her room.
I know she is going through a rough time. We both are.
I know I did. I made some mistakes. But these mistakes were made in specialize circumstances that won't be repeated. And Or I corrected myself afterwords.
I'm not crazy. Or Psycho. Or even stalking people. The first couple weeks, we have 3rd partys over staying the night and they can attend to the fact that i haven't do anything that would be close.
Ada and I aren't a couple any more for people who are a little behind. I'm not going to go in to specifics.
So. Ada breaks up with me over instant messenger at work. Then tells me I have to find my own way home from work(Mind you she's been my reliable transportation for Months. And I even pay her $100 a month in gas to do this. So she's doing me a favor and I'm paying her for it..)
So I have to walk home from Maitland to the house Next to UCF. It's fifteen miles. I get off at 6pm and it takes my 5 1/2 hours to walk home.
I get home I'm in SOOO much pain. My calfs, knees and thighs hurt soo much. That's not even including the blisters on my feet.
The next day. Saturday(I walked home on a friday night) Ada is silent to me all day. She JUST BROKE up with me. And I have NO sense of closure. She refuses to talk to me.
The details get a bit mum. She makes a drink or two. I have a couple myself because of the pain. She's on her pc and I walk over to try to talk to her. She tells me to get the fuck out of her face. I tell her I want to talk about the situation. She says she's DONE talking about what's happening.
I am in pain... I have a bit of liquor in me... So I don't back up. She physically starts to assault me because I won't get out of her way. She punches me in the face a few times. Hits me in the chest. I don't block it. I don't raise my hand. I don't hit her back. I was in her way which was wrong of me. But I didn't do ANYTHING to her.
She then decides she's going to leave because she doesn't want to talk about it. Bad decision is i grab her keys and plead again. Please talk to me. She tells me to give her, her keys. Once when I don't do like she ask. She proceeds to scratch me. (short of drawing blood, but I'm still have scabs from it), punches me again, and Bites hard enough to leave a bruise for a week.. I didn't hit her. I didn't raise my hand. I didn't push her. The only thing I did was grab her keys..
Eventually I let go of the keys and I ask her again to please stay so we can talk about it. She refuses. I stand in the door way.
Ada is maybe an Inch or two shorter then me. I don't tower over her. And she outweighs me by at least twenty pounds. I am not IMPOSING standing next to her. She doesn't feel threatened. I have never. EVER done anything remotely CLOSE to violent.
She eventually pushes pass me to go to the door. and leaves.
My decisions in the situation were poor. I should of let her go, not stood in her way. But I did not, and NEVER resorted to violence. I yelled. and screamed and I was very VERY upset that day. But I was broken up with the day before, WHILE at work.. Over IM. I walked Home 15 miles.. I was in pain., and I have some Liquor in me too to reinforce those bad decisions.
Instead of talking rationally to me like i asked. Multiple times. She resorts to violence to get her way. There was a back door. She didn't use it. She could of just took a walk around the block instead of needing the keys. But she didn't do that as well.
I think we are both to blame for this bad situation. I am NOT innocent. But I am not the person I have been made out to be.
... The Next day... She goes to work. While she's at work. I clean the kitchen, do the dishes, WALK 3 miles(1.5 miles there and back on my Hurting legs) to Publix to buy food and I made dinner. I actually made enough to make dinner for the entire week. And I didn't ask for ANYTHING in return.
...
I was really upset that day. I made a ton of poor decisions. Being in pain, and being tipsy didn't help the situation. But doesn't require a Restraining order against me... There is NO reason she shouldn't feel safe in the house with me.
There has never been any form of repeat of that ether.
The other night. I tried to talk calmly and rationally to Ada again. Still. She refuses to talk and tells me to get out of her room. I never raise my voice. I don't yell. I just talk to her. She shuts the door in my face. I continue to talk to her calmly on the other side of her.
As for the interrogation in to her sex life? She fucked people on MY BED. I went to bed. Rolled over and her vibrator was in my FACE. She felt it was perfectly ok to fuck in my bed. Never apologized or anything. I just asked her who she slept with, in the bed. Then when i got conflicting stories I asked one more person. They said the same thing. I eventually APOLOGIZED and that was the end of it.
The reason for the fight the other Night? I got upset because She's been a bitch to me around the house. And I've been trying to be nice. I've done cleaning around the house like we both promised to do, and she's never done. Windows stopped booting. I went out, bought the new hard drive, reinstalled windows. Got everything working for her again. I've made a point to make sure to bring home food if she needs it. I got upset with her for being the way she is. I.e. walking away when I'm still talking to her, etc. Then I apologized a few minutes later after i calmed down, and asked her to be nicer to me. I said that if she could be nicer to me around the house. I would be much easier to get along with. And if I'm easier to get along with. She's less stressed. I said we would BOTH benefit if she just tried a little harder. I guess doing ANYTHING for me is too much. She screamed at me to get out of her room.
I know she is going through a rough time. We both are.