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Sorting some thoughts:
-I work well with Ashley due to us being switches: she is dominant in public and wants someone to play to her childishness and make her happy there. But, once the setting turns private, she needs someone to lead and be sensitive to her tastes there. This is where I can play to my thinking skills and make decisions that make her happy while still asserting my dominance. You see, I am a switch too.
-Rob works well with Geminai because she is dominant and looking for a challenge in someone. Rob is the kind of guy with a big heart and an even bigger resolve: his inner thinking is amazingly simple. "If I try hard enough, I'll succeed" he tells himself. It's easier to point out that his thinking is largely extraverted; he is more concerned about other people than he might let on, due to his affable, louder than life mouth. Yet... it's easy to see his heart is in the right place. So when he accepts the challenges of Geminai and wins, Gemgem feels satisfied and willing to accept defeat. If Rob were to be more sensitive to when enough was enough, he would indeed be able to win Geminai's heart, because he would be paying enugh attention to tell when Ashley is dominant and submissive and reciprocate in kind. It kind of works like this: Geminai sees how easily I allow myself to be dominated in public and thinks to herself "wimp..." but the fact is, I AM LETTING ASHLEY WIN NATURALLY. I didn't plan for that to happen, but now that I'm aware of it I CAN plan for it to happen and as a result force Geminai to realize my genius.
The split is obvious, and my path of action is clear: determine when Geminai is out and CHALLENGE Gemgem to remind her that I am NOT a wimp!
-I work well with Ashley due to us being switches: she is dominant in public and wants someone to play to her childishness and make her happy there. But, once the setting turns private, she needs someone to lead and be sensitive to her tastes there. This is where I can play to my thinking skills and make decisions that make her happy while still asserting my dominance. You see, I am a switch too.
-Rob works well with Geminai because she is dominant and looking for a challenge in someone. Rob is the kind of guy with a big heart and an even bigger resolve: his inner thinking is amazingly simple. "If I try hard enough, I'll succeed" he tells himself. It's easier to point out that his thinking is largely extraverted; he is more concerned about other people than he might let on, due to his affable, louder than life mouth. Yet... it's easy to see his heart is in the right place. So when he accepts the challenges of Geminai and wins, Gemgem feels satisfied and willing to accept defeat. If Rob were to be more sensitive to when enough was enough, he would indeed be able to win Geminai's heart, because he would be paying enugh attention to tell when Ashley is dominant and submissive and reciprocate in kind. It kind of works like this: Geminai sees how easily I allow myself to be dominated in public and thinks to herself "wimp..." but the fact is, I AM LETTING ASHLEY WIN NATURALLY. I didn't plan for that to happen, but now that I'm aware of it I CAN plan for it to happen and as a result force Geminai to realize my genius.
The split is obvious, and my path of action is clear: determine when Geminai is out and CHALLENGE Gemgem to remind her that I am NOT a wimp!