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[dont_mug_yrself]

I'm so sick of all the passive, nice people. Is it so hard to say what you are thinking? Is it so hard to be a critic? Is it so hard to fucking to be truthful? I'm sick of everyone avoiding being rude at the cost of everyone being lied to constantly. I'm sick of all the people who will restrain themselves for the sake of others feelings,

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[2ezilyamused]

compassion is something one learns steve.. im not saying you havent learned that. im just saying to be compassionate is to care for others feelings.. just because someone is nice,.. doesnt mean they arent truthful... just becasue someone thinks before they speak, doesnt mean they are passive. for most people.. beign rude is a negative thing? maybe its different for you. but idk. i agree that when people lie in order to spare someones feelings it can have a negative outcome. but the reasoning behind the lie is a noble one. even tho it still isnt right. you said that if everyone just told the truth so many problems would be resolved and just disappear.. dont you think that the truth can also CAUSE problems? just as many or maybe more? i sure do. so i get what you're saying.. but sometimes you have to look at it from both perspectives.. ya know?

-jenna

[dont_mug_yrself]

Um, I never said that if someone thinks before they speak they are passive, becasue I know people who do think before they are about to speak, but end up not speaking to spare someone's feelings. This is just plain stupid.

If something is noble but not right, does that mean you still do it? I just did a current event on a rebel leader who lead his followers and ousted their governments leader, who happened to be somewhat good. He was known to shoot mothers and children. This man was unethical, but noble for his cause. Is this to say that what he did was okay because it was noble? I think not.

I was saying that many problems we have today would be slovbed. I never said that new ones wouldn't arise. Don't put words in my mouth.

I look at the other perspective plenty, and I think that it is pussy to obstruct truth, and instill blindness.

[2ezilyamused]

deal with it!! its society, and there is no way to change it.

be who you want to be. you dont like people changing you, so dont go trying to change others. let them be pussies if they want to be. it seems to me that you are very blunt and truthful, but i see more problems from your perspective rather than someone who is saying something nice.

[jimguy]

Shut the fuck up, you deal with it. He didn't say he was trying to change anyone, he said he was sick of it.

[dont_mug_yrself]

How are there more problems with truth than there are with lies/deception? Please enlighten me.

[2ezilyamused]

how is being nice always lying? please enlighten me..