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Look at how condescending McCain was towards Oliver Clark. Making assumptions about what he knows or doesn't know.
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Now watch how Obama engages someone honestly and with calm and composure. He doesn't assume anything. He keeps asking questions and isn't afraid of any possible hostility.
Even if one was in the context of a town hall and other out inthe open, the one to one style is still a sharp contrast for both of these guys.