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I may have to take a more active hand in my girl's problems (mentioned in past posts). I don't think she wants that. I know she wants more discipline, but in this it's all or none. There is no middle ground with this for me. I wonder if that is what she wants. She has to know it's going to come to a head one way or another. I have told her on no uncertain terms that she WILL get her act together or I WILL take action. I think she's had enough chances, personally. She agrees, but has yet to take definitive action. Looks like I will have to.
I've told her that everything else can go to hell but that one thing will change. I've let her know how important this is to me that she take matters into her own hands. Nothing has changed. I'm feeling a bit slighted in the matter. Like she's thinking, "Yeah. I know. But let's see how far I can push it before I lose." So anyone have any sweet ideas for me to brainstorm on this one? If I take this road I'm going to be lighting a fire under her ass and I wouldn't mind some input. As I've said, I would rather she do it on her own for my own reasons, but I am not going to hold back once the dam breaks. And it WILL be painful.
She did do what I told her with regard to a certain young lady with whom she used to work. Let's call her M. She's been feeling an attraction to M since she became M's boss, but hasn't been able to act on it because of the professional relationship. Well it turns out that M has a sort of love for the dramatic. And my girl has considered it a sort of blessing that she never acted on it, even though M has shown very distinct signs of attraction toward my girl. Well now they have different jobs and my girl's been feeling more friendly toward M. She's even admitted to me that she is very attracted but a little pissed that M seems to love drama so much. But she admitted to me that she wants to do things with M and I was certain there is an attraction there. There have been various things that M's done to show this, from flirting to leaving heart-felt little notes about how happy she was to work with her.
So I told her that the next time she saw M to mention how cute M was. They had a little talk after, at which point M gave her a number, and M threw in as a goodbye, "Love you!" Hmm... I think someone's smitten with my girl.
It's also fun to know that my girl really likes the size of M's hands. That's always good to know, considering she's been nearly obsessed with having another girl's hand inside her. At this point, I am thinking that she should just say screw the drama and whoever thinks what and act on her attractions. You only bloody well live once, right? A life lived in fear is a life not worth living.
Hell. She needs to learn how to flirt and socialize, anyway. I think M would be good for her, whatever comes of it.
Wow. That inability to put pronouns on things really makes this post look a little gimpy. Guess it can't be helped.
I've told her that everything else can go to hell but that one thing will change. I've let her know how important this is to me that she take matters into her own hands. Nothing has changed. I'm feeling a bit slighted in the matter. Like she's thinking, "Yeah. I know. But let's see how far I can push it before I lose." So anyone have any sweet ideas for me to brainstorm on this one? If I take this road I'm going to be lighting a fire under her ass and I wouldn't mind some input. As I've said, I would rather she do it on her own for my own reasons, but I am not going to hold back once the dam breaks. And it WILL be painful.
She did do what I told her with regard to a certain young lady with whom she used to work. Let's call her M. She's been feeling an attraction to M since she became M's boss, but hasn't been able to act on it because of the professional relationship. Well it turns out that M has a sort of love for the dramatic. And my girl has considered it a sort of blessing that she never acted on it, even though M has shown very distinct signs of attraction toward my girl. Well now they have different jobs and my girl's been feeling more friendly toward M. She's even admitted to me that she is very attracted but a little pissed that M seems to love drama so much. But she admitted to me that she wants to do things with M and I was certain there is an attraction there. There have been various things that M's done to show this, from flirting to leaving heart-felt little notes about how happy she was to work with her.
So I told her that the next time she saw M to mention how cute M was. They had a little talk after, at which point M gave her a number, and M threw in as a goodbye, "Love you!" Hmm... I think someone's smitten with my girl.
It's also fun to know that my girl really likes the size of M's hands. That's always good to know, considering she's been nearly obsessed with having another girl's hand inside her. At this point, I am thinking that she should just say screw the drama and whoever thinks what and act on her attractions. You only bloody well live once, right? A life lived in fear is a life not worth living.
Hell. She needs to learn how to flirt and socialize, anyway. I think M would be good for her, whatever comes of it.
Wow. That inability to put pronouns on things really makes this post look a little gimpy. Guess it can't be helped.