May 01, 2007 00:00
So one of my sisters (a close one) is single, and an old sister (not in it anymore, who is a bit shady) randomly calls her to come to ft. wayne to go to a party on friday. This sister has told me all about it, and how she gets to meet this "guy". Let's give him the name "Bob". Lets give the sister who is still a sister the name "Lisa" and the shady ex sister "Amy". So Bob has been calling Lisa numerous times during the day for the past three days. Four to five times in one day. They have never met, nor have they ever talked before three days ago. This sister really wants a boyfriend, and wants to find someone to be with. She then proceeded to ask me my opinion on the matter....this is my opinion.
I think it's a bit shady that he wants Lisa to come to ft. wayne to see him. Why can't he come here? Lisa is going to the party alone, without any friends, but the shady Amy. This girl is really shady, and on numerous drugs. I told Lisa I don't feel that it's safc, and I have a really unsettling awful feeling about the situation. I think that Bob is trying way too hard to win her over, and possibly seeing her as an easy target for sex, or whatever. It's kind of like ths situation where the 911 people advertise for a missing person. The girl always goes to a random party, and ends up dead in a river three days later after being tortured....maybe i'm overexaggerating a bit, but I feel that Lisa is putting herself in a situation that she might not be able to handle, especially if there is drinking invoved. Lisa is now pissed that I can't "accept that fact that a guy might like her w/o wanting sex...." I say that's bullshit, and if he honestly liked her THAT much...he would go to neutral ground and meet. Comments welcomed. Thanks!