May 10, 2004 23:05
sometimes i think that a persons faults get exaggerated over time. story after story is told and sooner or later a certain someone is a horrible person. sometimes you should look at it from another point of few. why did he or she lie that day? why is someone like that? cause they wanted to feel cool/get out of something/be important/etc... you would make up a lie too. All i am saying is understand that it is human nature for someone to do what they did. Well i guess i have a few friends that got "exaggerated". dont be so obtuse about it. just because what they said or what they believe is a little radical dont hate them. or atleast dont alienate them.
My second point: when we get really mad and go crazy, ITS'S NOT CAUSE WE CANT SUFFICE WITH OUR CURRENT SITUATION. people get off on being mad at someone. then you can tell everyone about it, and make them see it your way. well if everyone understood things from another point of few we could make up sooner. if you focused on the real reason you are mad you would understand that it doesnt take much to forgive someone.
seriously think about why you dont talk to someone. think about why you are mad at someone. are you really mad at them, so mad you had to relay that madness to everyone else. OR WERE YOU GETTING ATTENTION OFF OF IT. you have this little drama that you can go tell everyone about.
we all do it.
some people should be friends again.
and i didnt write this about what happened friday with my math table/math table directly to the right. but if this is relevant to you then just try and understand it.
i dont think anyone will understand what i just said. well i think my boy roby can reason through it. that is my theory on why people act mad when they get mad. GETTING MAD HAPPENS, CANT DENY IT. but staying mad is explained above. and the thing about friends and lying and human nature. seriously think about who your "click" hates collectively. then ask yourself why you (individually) actually hate that person.
its amazing to me how the human mind operates. so manipulative, so tricky. so insecure. everyone saying and acting out little plots.
i wrote this for a certain someone and i hope they get how it is targeted torwards them. READ IT TWICE OR THREE TIMES
end of theory #1