Forgotten Liasons
I think I had sex a couple of nights ago with my then boyfriend. I don't remember a thing, and that's the scary part. The next day, he and his friends were calling me a whore. What do you say to guys like that, because I don't remember doing anything at all? How do I defend myself from what they are saying?
Confused
Dear Confused,
I can understand why you are upset, as no-one like to be called nasty names, however, I need you to think about something. You said you can't remember anything that happened, so how do you know that you didn't actually act like a whore? Are you sure you weren't polishing guys off for spare change? Perhaps taking a double penetration for a packet of cigarettes? Was your hair all stuck together in the morning? There's nothing wrong with any of these things, just make sure that they didn't take advantage of you in your intoxicated state and 'forget' to pay you.
Confused
Dear Confused,
I can understand why you are upset, as no-one like to be called nasty names, however, I need you to think about something. You said you can't remember anything that happened, so how do you know that you didn't actually act like a whore? Are you sure you weren't polishing guys off for spare change? Perhaps taking a double penetration for a packet of cigarettes? Was your hair all stuck together in the morning? There's nothing wrong with any of these things, just make sure that they didn't take advantage of you in your intoxicated state and 'forget' to pay you.