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Jul 30, 2008 04:20

Why is it that sex has become a precursor to marriage? I thought that ideally, one was supposed to wait until marriage to have sex. But now, if one is not 'sexually active', then chances are that the other person in the relationship will not stick around. Also, why can't someone be abstinent without being overly religious? I suppose this is just ( Read more... )

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I agree! drea12301994 July 31 2008, 03:06:39 UTC

Hmm. Good thoughts. I'm not sure. Maybe it the fact that when you don't find the right person, for you, THEN they won't stay with you. But if you find someone who truly cares for you, they WILL stay with you, even if you don't have sex, or do other things. You don't have to be sexualy active, just to have a relationship with someone. I think it'a, you have to truly, with all of your heart, LOVE someone to become sexualy active with them.

And I think it's great when someone wants to stay pure until marriage. I don't think anyone should feeled pressured to have sex.
I don't know why it's so important for one to no longer be a virgin, but it IS the 21st century, and I think people should be changing what we are doing with it.
I guess so.
But I like your thoughts on this.
I agree!