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I had a wonderful breath on insight today. I know this sounds bad, but why do people hold on so much when they're not happy with their relationship? For some reason, girls always hold on when in a bad relationship for what they say is for feat of hurting the guy's feelings. The thing is, this is worse for them. They believe that holding on will save their relationship, but it never gets better. They hold on for something that almost never happens. You have to wonder why. The thing is that women think they can change men, but ladies...if you can tell me that you have ever truly changed a guy, I will shut up now.
Guys will never change for girls and they should know it. It is the exact same thing for women...the never change for guys either. It's not that neither sex can't...they won't. it just doesn't work out like that.
Back to the issue. Why can't girls let go? The funny thing is you all know that the relationship is doomed. You always realize that the guy is bad for you and that it won't work out, yet you still hold on. Why? Why would you sacrifice you happiness for the guy's. You know it's going to end eventually. You know the longer you hold on the worse it's going to be. The longer you wait the more emotional and devestating the breakup will be. Which is stupid considering that the guy in most cases cares less about the relationship than you do. Most guys aren't affected by emotions in the same way you are. They will get over it usually at least twice as fast. The funny thing is, like all my rants, this is common sense. Girls know every part of this information, so we're now at a crossroad again. Why do they hold on when they know it's pointless and that they are just hurting themselves more? It's because girls don't want it to be over. Even if they don't like the guy, they still want someone to be there for them. They still want to have a boyfriend. They don't want guys to break up with them either. Again love shows its hypocriticalness. Women want a guy who's honest, but they don't want to hear the truth. If you believe in true love, than you would accept what's best for him and you. And if he believes in true love and he knows it's not working out...which his friends might have to point out for him because the majority of guys are emotionally retarded...then he should do what's best for you and make you happy again. Again love traces back to happiness...another hypocritical emotion. But that's for another time.
Guys will never change for girls and they should know it. It is the exact same thing for women...the never change for guys either. It's not that neither sex can't...they won't. it just doesn't work out like that.
Back to the issue. Why can't girls let go? The funny thing is you all know that the relationship is doomed. You always realize that the guy is bad for you and that it won't work out, yet you still hold on. Why? Why would you sacrifice you happiness for the guy's. You know it's going to end eventually. You know the longer you hold on the worse it's going to be. The longer you wait the more emotional and devestating the breakup will be. Which is stupid considering that the guy in most cases cares less about the relationship than you do. Most guys aren't affected by emotions in the same way you are. They will get over it usually at least twice as fast. The funny thing is, like all my rants, this is common sense. Girls know every part of this information, so we're now at a crossroad again. Why do they hold on when they know it's pointless and that they are just hurting themselves more? It's because girls don't want it to be over. Even if they don't like the guy, they still want someone to be there for them. They still want to have a boyfriend. They don't want guys to break up with them either. Again love shows its hypocriticalness. Women want a guy who's honest, but they don't want to hear the truth. If you believe in true love, than you would accept what's best for him and you. And if he believes in true love and he knows it's not working out...which his friends might have to point out for him because the majority of guys are emotionally retarded...then he should do what's best for you and make you happy again. Again love traces back to happiness...another hypocritical emotion. But that's for another time.