~ duodequadragesimus

[dofaye]

I never thought I'd say this, but I don't believe I understand women at all. I can't help but wonder if I've been making false assumptions about my sisters and mother as well.

I suppose this is the next thing to ask, then: How does one person learn to understand another? In theory, of course, since it's clear that I'm not meant for relationships.

Comments

[donttelldaddy]

Self-pity is hideous, Jules.

[dofaye]

I don't pity anybody.

[donttelldaddy]

You're not cut out for relationships? Sounds like self-pity to me.

[dofaye]

It's a simple fact, and I'm not going to deny it. I'm perfectly happy without a lover.

[donttelldaddy]

Choosing not to and being incapable are different.

[dofaye]

In the end, they have the same result.

[donttelldaddy]

One is forced onto you and the other is not. Which is it?

[dofaye]

Why does it matter at all? I'm under the distinct impression that you dislike me.

[donttelldaddy]

Either you're weaker than I thought you were, or you prefer to keep your independence. Of course it matters.

[dofaye]

I prefer to keep my independence, of course. I'm no victim of my fate.

[donttelldaddy]

That's not what it sounded like.

[dofaye]

I know myself better than you do, I'm sure.

[donttelldaddy]

I sure hope so.