Ian Sage
I was looking for new music to listen to and i went to the myspace page of a band called Ghosts On The Radio. i started to listen and liked it but then i looked at the blogs and read this: LOVE...I THINK I FINALLY FIGURED IT OUT. so i went in to read.
i belive this is the best way i have ever seen anyone put it.
If you had asked me 6 months ago what love was, I would have told you that love was merely a word that described an emotion that human beings could not possible comprehend nor control. And if you had asked me what was the point of a relationship, I would have said--to indulge your insecurity....but now, I think I got it....See, the biggest problem with the human being, is the mind and the heart always being at odds with one another, that is what creates the indecisiveness....we want to love something just long enough to hate it...we want to cherish it...just long enough to abuse it. We love to build people up, just to break them down, it is in our nature. I mean think about the conflict...you meet someone and your mind goes "Damn, that person is really cool, we have great talks, I feel the connection!" and your heart goes "Nah, not interested" Then the mind goes "Oh c'mon, please..I am so tired of being miserable, just indulge me here". and your heart, coyly buffing it's nails against it's t-shirt replies, "Nah, how bout that person over there!" as it points to someone who is completely the last thing you need on the planet, but somehow you feel a sexual attraction and you sense that maybe this person "needs you", when if fact they just need help in general..therapy...LOL. Your mind immediately goes "Oh, God no!! Not again...Please no! Please! But your heart goes "Yeah, for sure...I like this one, she's a keeper!" And the sad thing is...Your fucking heart always wins!!!!
.........So, what is love...........Love is when your mind finally agrees with your heart...it is when you meet someone who fulfills you. I never thought this could be possible, I settle way too much. People say listen to your heart....fuck the heart....listen to your mind!!! If your heart agrees...you're set!!!
-Ian Sage
http://www.myspace.com/GhostsontheRadio
listen to their music and read their other blogs, its all good.
i belive this is the best way i have ever seen anyone put it.
If you had asked me 6 months ago what love was, I would have told you that love was merely a word that described an emotion that human beings could not possible comprehend nor control. And if you had asked me what was the point of a relationship, I would have said--to indulge your insecurity....but now, I think I got it....See, the biggest problem with the human being, is the mind and the heart always being at odds with one another, that is what creates the indecisiveness....we want to love something just long enough to hate it...we want to cherish it...just long enough to abuse it. We love to build people up, just to break them down, it is in our nature. I mean think about the conflict...you meet someone and your mind goes "Damn, that person is really cool, we have great talks, I feel the connection!" and your heart goes "Nah, not interested" Then the mind goes "Oh c'mon, please..I am so tired of being miserable, just indulge me here". and your heart, coyly buffing it's nails against it's t-shirt replies, "Nah, how bout that person over there!" as it points to someone who is completely the last thing you need on the planet, but somehow you feel a sexual attraction and you sense that maybe this person "needs you", when if fact they just need help in general..therapy...LOL. Your mind immediately goes "Oh, God no!! Not again...Please no! Please! But your heart goes "Yeah, for sure...I like this one, she's a keeper!" And the sad thing is...Your fucking heart always wins!!!!
.........So, what is love...........Love is when your mind finally agrees with your heart...it is when you meet someone who fulfills you. I never thought this could be possible, I settle way too much. People say listen to your heart....fuck the heart....listen to your mind!!! If your heart agrees...you're set!!!
-Ian Sage
http://www.myspace.com/GhostsontheRadio
listen to their music and read their other blogs, its all good.