Torchwood Finder List--Jealous Ianto/Cheating Jack + Homophobia
The first request was for stories in which Ianto and Jack had to deal with homophobia, or where Ianto found himself having difficulty with his attraction to Jack.
Stories dealing with homophobia
Dr. Harkness and Nurse Jones--Ghana by blue-fjords. This is the sequel to Dr. Harkness and Nurse Jones--Kenya.
Conversing in Words, Fists and Grunts by blue-fjords
John Ellis by fajrdrako
Ashes and Dust by Blucougar57
Hate by Yourworstnightmare (Caveat: I haven't actually read this, but it's apparently about Ianto getting kidnapped because of his relationship with Jack. Caveat lector.)
The "Long Weekend" series by misswinterhill has Ianto dealing with homophobic members of his family. The stories are, in order:
Long Weekend
Sticks and Stones (This is the story where the issues begin to come up.)
Something Blue
I wasn't sure if this was what you were looking for, but here a couple of stories that discuss issues Ianto has with his attraction to Jack and/or his own sexuality:
Fault by skellerbvvt. Not homophobia, but Ianto denying to himself that he's in any way gay despite his attraction to Jack.
Both the Best and Worst of Both Worlds by smallwaldo. Again, not specifically about homophobia, but here Ianto does a lot of thinking about what it means to be bisexual and not fit in anywhere.
The second request was for stories in which Jack was cheating on Ianto, or where Ianto was otherwise fed up with Jack's flirting and infidelity.
Cheating Jack and Jealous Ianto
First, here are stories where Jack sleeps with someone else:
That Doesn't Bother You, Does It? by misswinterhill
Half the Battle by ivy03
The Sometimes Effects Of The 21st Century On Views On Fidelity... by gersteakknife The journal is friends-locked, but you can request access here. It's worth it. gersteakknife seems to be good about getting back to people who request access.
The Seven Deadly Sins (as Demonstrated by Jack Harkness) by Amanda
Exorcism by notevery
A Matter of Time by demotu
These are stories where Ianto is jealous, usually with a reason to be:
Waiting by dvanulya
Belonging by never-more-fics
Green-Eyed Monster by oncomingscone
Inescapable by nyghtpet
Mind Reading by miss-zedem
The Missus and the Ex by hel-bee
I Don't Know, Sir by lovelyladylooks
How to Shoot at Someone Who Outdrew You by misslucyjane
Good Wishes to the Corpse by smallwaldo
So Far From Normal by seether79
Because my readership has shifted a bit in the migration to Dreamwidth, I'll mention again that these aren't recommendations, per se, though they are stories that I feel the person asking will probably enjoy. I draw these links from the pool of stories that I've saved, and if a story is on my hard drive it means no more or less than the fact that I probably read it all the way through at least once. Though I'm obviously going to give weight to stories that I've enjoyed, these lists are merely that: lists of stories that fit certain criteria, and that I think are well-written enough to be enjoyed on that basis.
Stories dealing with homophobia
Dr. Harkness and Nurse Jones--Ghana by blue-fjords. This is the sequel to Dr. Harkness and Nurse Jones--Kenya.
Conversing in Words, Fists and Grunts by blue-fjords
John Ellis by fajrdrako
Ashes and Dust by Blucougar57
Hate by Yourworstnightmare (Caveat: I haven't actually read this, but it's apparently about Ianto getting kidnapped because of his relationship with Jack. Caveat lector.)
The "Long Weekend" series by misswinterhill has Ianto dealing with homophobic members of his family. The stories are, in order:
Long Weekend
Sticks and Stones (This is the story where the issues begin to come up.)
Something Blue
I wasn't sure if this was what you were looking for, but here a couple of stories that discuss issues Ianto has with his attraction to Jack and/or his own sexuality:
Fault by skellerbvvt. Not homophobia, but Ianto denying to himself that he's in any way gay despite his attraction to Jack.
Both the Best and Worst of Both Worlds by smallwaldo. Again, not specifically about homophobia, but here Ianto does a lot of thinking about what it means to be bisexual and not fit in anywhere.
The second request was for stories in which Jack was cheating on Ianto, or where Ianto was otherwise fed up with Jack's flirting and infidelity.
Cheating Jack and Jealous Ianto
First, here are stories where Jack sleeps with someone else:
That Doesn't Bother You, Does It? by misswinterhill
Half the Battle by ivy03
The Sometimes Effects Of The 21st Century On Views On Fidelity... by gersteakknife The journal is friends-locked, but you can request access here. It's worth it. gersteakknife seems to be good about getting back to people who request access.
The Seven Deadly Sins (as Demonstrated by Jack Harkness) by Amanda
Exorcism by notevery
A Matter of Time by demotu
These are stories where Ianto is jealous, usually with a reason to be:
Waiting by dvanulya
Belonging by never-more-fics
Green-Eyed Monster by oncomingscone
Inescapable by nyghtpet
Mind Reading by miss-zedem
The Missus and the Ex by hel-bee
I Don't Know, Sir by lovelyladylooks
How to Shoot at Someone Who Outdrew You by misslucyjane
Good Wishes to the Corpse by smallwaldo
So Far From Normal by seether79
Because my readership has shifted a bit in the migration to Dreamwidth, I'll mention again that these aren't recommendations, per se, though they are stories that I feel the person asking will probably enjoy. I draw these links from the pool of stories that I've saved, and if a story is on my hard drive it means no more or less than the fact that I probably read it all the way through at least once. Though I'm obviously going to give weight to stories that I've enjoyed, these lists are merely that: lists of stories that fit certain criteria, and that I think are well-written enough to be enjoyed on that basis.