I did a ritual months ago just after A left where I took the two most emotional pictures of us (both happened to be us kissing, one from the wedding) and bound them in a long strip of black cloth while in a ritualistic space. These are still on my alter on the dark half along with a metal container that has my wedding band. I am not sure what I am going to do with the band yet since I have only once been able to open the box and even look at it, but I will take the bound photos and burn them in the Temple of Forgiveness this year. I am also working on a book of 'our broken love' that is all the emails and journal entries that I have from beginning to end (with the last post from him being "all I ever wanted is for you to let me do the things that I wanted to do and for you to do the things you wanted and that's it") and I will have it so that it can be read front to back and flipped and read back to front. Our names and places will be changed but it will live at the temple for the week and burn.
Perhaps you should consider doing some rital and figure out a way to purge some of the more seriously emotional pictures, you don't need to rid yourself of all of it, just those that bring up an overwhelmingly unecessary reaction that you can't ever negate.
Perhaps you should consider doing some rital and figure out a way to purge some of the more seriously emotional pictures, you don't need to rid yourself of all of it, just those that bring up an overwhelmingly unecessary reaction that you can't ever negate.
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