Wow...well first off, I don't believe dating is a complete waste of time, considering that you are not necessarily always going to get let down...and if you worry about being stabbed in the back all the time you aren't going to be prepared for being stabbed in the front by a true friend... Trust is something to be handled very carefully...if you trust too easily you are bound to get hurt, but the same goes for if you don't trust at all...you have to learn to trust otherwise you'll never learn when to follow your instincts and not trust someone, And yes dating can be a waste of money...dropping 20-50 a weekend is rather ridiculous, however that doesn't mean that one should write off dating all together...there is no need to spend that much money in the first place...there are things you can do that require little to no money.... If being with a certain person starts to stress you out tell them...talk to them about it...and if you aren't comfortable doing that get the hell out of that relationship...it's obviously not healthy...but don't let it destroy future relationships or possibilities of future relationships.... And there's no need for "I told you so"'s
Trust is something to be handled very carefully...if you trust too easily you are bound to get hurt, but the same goes for if you don't trust at all...you have to learn to trust otherwise you'll never learn when to follow your instincts and not trust someone,
And yes dating can be a waste of money...dropping 20-50 a weekend is rather ridiculous, however that doesn't mean that one should write off dating all together...there is no need to spend that much money in the first place...there are things you can do that require little to no money....
If being with a certain person starts to stress you out tell them...talk to them about it...and if you aren't comfortable doing that get the hell out of that relationship...it's obviously not healthy...but don't let it destroy future relationships or possibilities of future relationships....
And there's no need for "I told you so"'s
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