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Ahh it sucks when you like a guy. You can't tell them for the fact that they aren't really looking for anything at the moment. And why would that be? Because someone else broke their heart and they don't seem to figure out the good people form the bad. I know been thier done that. Been blinded by such hurt and pain to only pick someone to hurt me

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The relationship between rebound and waiting...

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is a thin line of icing. You definitely have a quandry here and I'm torn on what to say. On one hand, I'm a firm believer in the philosiphy that humanity would be better off to have been born without the ability of restraint. People all the time are saying to be yourself, go for it, just do it... Very rarely do people actually take advantage of the one sht they're going to get at life. Humanity is one huge second guess. People should ditch their inhibitions and be honest and open. doubletalk keeps us from ever really living and keeps us wondering "what if". On the other hand, If a guy is smitten, he will usually say so imediately if confronted. If not and he plays the shy route, either he really is "taking a break from relationships", also known as "wants to sleep around and have some fun"... or he is keeping the option open so that if he decides he actually does like you he can still keep you around at least until some else comes along that catches his eye and shows some play. Guys are crazy like that. I'm not blaming it all on them but its true for both sexes. Guys are always reaching for what they can't have and looking toward the future instead of seeing whats right in front of their face. ANother pitful for the common human, not enjoying the present. Women aren't much different, always looking for the mate that will provide the right future for their relationship. Look at your feet, not at the horizon. ...back to your delema... Tell him how you feel. when you finally cash in your chips you won't regret the things you did. You'll regret not doing the things you were afraid to do. At the same time, remember this, theres always someone looking for you the way you're looking for someone else. Open your eyes and you can find them.

Enjoy the show.
Someone who enjoys people trying to find themselves in the mess of other people. :)