Pressure
You ever have those moments where your parents expect to do whatever they want you to do and not what you want to do. I do. Practically all the time. Especially from daddy dearest. He's definitely not the best father figure in the world to me giving me pressure to do thing he thinks I can't do but I know I can do like cook and clean and get a job. If he would stop reminding me every other week or so and stop using his intimidation tactics, I would do that. But no, he still uses the intimidation tactic thinking it'll work for me eventually. It's been at least 21 years now, and by my opinion, it hasn't worked very well nor it ever will in the future.