Oct 05, 2008 13:40
I'm thinking that I may be wearing a huge "duchebags welcome" sign on my forehead.
Last night Emily, Megan, Erin, and I hit up DuPoint for some girlie fun. Before we left, Abdul called, wanted to know what I was doing. I let him know where we were going, he told us he wanted to meet up.
He comes to Rumors about 1 (it took him about a half hour to get in because of the line), we were having fun dancing, things were going well...
A few minutes later he says he had to go, but would be back at 1:40 (which was 20 min later), I told him not to bother coming back.
Around 1:30 we'd had enough alcohol and drinking for the night and decided to head out.
On our walk to the metro, we pass Abdul and his friend, talking to a big group of girls. I say, "That's cute" and keep on walking- don't even turn back.
He calls 5 minutes later, saying that it wasn't what it looked like- that the girls asked them where a club was. Right. He asked me to wait where I was so he could come explain it to me in person. I texted him that he had 2 min. 2 min went by...nothing. I called him, no answer. I texted him "I'm done.."
To confound the situation, Rashard was supposed to call Friday and yesterday and didn't. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal, but that's my biggest pet peeve and it certainly shouldn't be happening so early. I understand people get busy, but a text takes 2 seconds to send.
I really am fed up and hurting here.
I've lived in DC for a year and 5 months, have been on dates with about 20 different people, but can't escape the same ending. I'm so sick of it.
I'm not sure whether to cleanse myself by putting myself on a dating hiatus or what, but something needs to change. now.
Any insight you can provide would be great. I feel so lost...