Self-Proclaimed Nice Guys

[disorientation]

The "Nice Guy", the guy that's bitter about girls that skipping him to date jerks. I've read lots of articles about the 'wah wah, nice guys finish last so nobody likes me' thing, but I think one is the best

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[wadanerf]

Oh my GAWD, I can't stand those self-proclaimed "Nice Guys". There are few things less attractive than a whiny, self-loathing men who refuse to be accountable for their own problems.

They do make real Nice Guys look sexier though.

[disorientation]

You don't want the boys that sorority chicks get. They're morons that are driven only by their penis. The real quality guys are the ones that are actually in clubs that matter, like the campus paper, the campus radio and television station... and if you're willing to go for the quality of the guy over looks (get ready for a major generalization), look in clubs like college senate and volenteer-aid committees.

[sariahmaerobot]

that made a lot of sense

[senordildo]

Women like a man confident enough to get what he wants, because he can probably get what they want too.
They also like someone who indulges their ego: as Peter Cook said, if on a date you can stay up past 4am listening to whatever rubbish a bird is eagerly spouting, you've got it made.
Lastly, as Otis Redding put it, men--try a little tenderness.

[disorientation]

I like this. And I agree.

[mathmagicland]

yeah, i've heard most of this before about how "nice guys" are just guys who need self-confidence, and it's true. but the rest of the article seems very opinionated and not so true.