My only take on this is that she has no idea what she's doing - flirting with trousers at squids b-day party is a little over the top... and very unconscious of her
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Yes, I'm not sure what S' perceptions of anything are. We have plans to meet tonight, so hopefully both of us come away enlightened and feeling more positive about things.
Thanks for the encouragement to cut Miss T some slack. She's truly a lovely person and deserves slack. The two or three times she's reached out to me about relationship concerns, I have been nothing but warm, receptive, reassuring and supportive, and I've emphasized to her that she's more than welcome to talk about anything with me. I wouldn't upbraid her or say anything about it being a mistake to talk that way to S, I don't think. I hope things work out and smooth over between Squidz and Miss T because I realized when things were rocky that she brings a lot to my life, too, and I'd miss her if she were gone.
Wish me luck tonight. I wish we could just arm wrestle. I would beat her easily, tell her how to act going forward, and that would be that. That would be so nice. No tiresome girly crap. ;)
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Thanks for the encouragement to cut Miss T some slack. She's truly a lovely person and deserves slack. The two or three times she's reached out to me about relationship concerns, I have been nothing but warm, receptive, reassuring and supportive, and I've emphasized to her that she's more than welcome to talk about anything with me. I wouldn't upbraid her or say anything about it being a mistake to talk that way to S, I don't think. I hope things work out and smooth over between Squidz and Miss T because I realized when things were rocky that she brings a lot to my life, too, and I'd miss her if she were gone.
Wish me luck tonight. I wish we could just arm wrestle. I would beat her easily, tell her how to act going forward, and that would be that. That would be so nice. No tiresome girly crap. ;)
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