Girls and parties... an introduction
My office room mate is a 47 year old rocker photographer who is getting back into having a social life now that his kids are older and his current wife and him are bored and wanna go out and party. He had to share this scandalous weekend story that I found very cute.
He's hanging out with some old rockers, and sitting around a fire drinking and having a good time when some of the girls start getting very tipsy and giggly. The main issue was that one of the girls had to get a picture of her chest to send to her new boyfriend, and she's explaining this to the other girls. Of course the other girls offer to help, one of them suggests her bra might look better on her, try my shirt, try my hair pin, etc, typical stuff. They all run off to the bathroom to do clothing swaps and typical stuff... he then says "I don't know why it slipped my mind, but I completley forgot to mention that I was a photographer and I could help take a good shot for her" and I said that it was not the time to get involved. That girls do silly sexy shit together at parties and it doesn't mean a thing to them, and it won't be something they think about later.
I said the best thing to do with parties and girls is to accept their conditional state where they have less personal boundaries and express their sexuality with joy and excitement. It's not a big deal, and nothing has any deep serious meaning. Just remember to act casual, have fun, and not to think about things too much or try to think of logical reasons girls behave whatever way. There aren't any biological imperatives at work, no mental concentration, no complex strategizing and certainly no serious goals in mind.
His story concluded with the girl running up to him with a pic on her phone of her boobs, and was genuinely pleased with how her bra looked. She said "doesn't that bra look great?" and he was a little surprised but wasn't uncomfortable, since his his wife was right there and was nodding at the pic, agreeing that the bra looked very good. I told him that is perfectly normal for girls at parties, and that it's ok to agree. It's not that big a deal.
I'm glad I can navigate people in the ways of having a ridiculously wild time in life without regretting it.
Who knew I would end up being a party coach for the generations
He's hanging out with some old rockers, and sitting around a fire drinking and having a good time when some of the girls start getting very tipsy and giggly. The main issue was that one of the girls had to get a picture of her chest to send to her new boyfriend, and she's explaining this to the other girls. Of course the other girls offer to help, one of them suggests her bra might look better on her, try my shirt, try my hair pin, etc, typical stuff. They all run off to the bathroom to do clothing swaps and typical stuff... he then says "I don't know why it slipped my mind, but I completley forgot to mention that I was a photographer and I could help take a good shot for her" and I said that it was not the time to get involved. That girls do silly sexy shit together at parties and it doesn't mean a thing to them, and it won't be something they think about later.
I said the best thing to do with parties and girls is to accept their conditional state where they have less personal boundaries and express their sexuality with joy and excitement. It's not a big deal, and nothing has any deep serious meaning. Just remember to act casual, have fun, and not to think about things too much or try to think of logical reasons girls behave whatever way. There aren't any biological imperatives at work, no mental concentration, no complex strategizing and certainly no serious goals in mind.
His story concluded with the girl running up to him with a pic on her phone of her boobs, and was genuinely pleased with how her bra looked. She said "doesn't that bra look great?" and he was a little surprised but wasn't uncomfortable, since his his wife was right there and was nodding at the pic, agreeing that the bra looked very good. I told him that is perfectly normal for girls at parties, and that it's ok to agree. It's not that big a deal.
I'm glad I can navigate people in the ways of having a ridiculously wild time in life without regretting it.
Who knew I would end up being a party coach for the generations