I've dated two such so-called "femmes"xxxhotboi69xxxOctober 14 2009, 20:35:10 UTC
The 1st of which I should have known better as she told me she had never dated a butch lesbian only trannies, but since she was interested in dating me and knew what I was I thought she would benefit from dating a real butch instead of those self hating male wannabes. However while at 1st she enjoyed being with me, the sex(actual mutual lesbian sex)in the end our relationship suffered becuz she was always pressuring me to accept and respect her trannie friends as men which I found highly offensive. That and she was always putting down and trying to deny all connection to me being female telling me she didn't see me as such and even taking it as far as saying she no longer wanted to have lesbian sex 8mos into the relationship. Needless to say we ended as I could not accept being told to play a male role in my lesbian relationship any longer. If she and her friends could not accept me for who I really am and they were all going to pressure me into living a lie to support their self hating denial of women I had no other choice , but to walk away & reclaim my pride.
The 2cd socalled femme swore herself a true lesbian and had only dated others female ided butches (and a few men in her past). Well I took her at her word as I had no reason to question her interest in me as lesbian attraction as I made it quite clear from then on that I only date lesbian femmes(real femmes) , but while she & I were not really serious I began to notice that she was also dating some1 else who was in the process of transitioning.
Now I expected her to end that as she claimed she was a lesbian and that she really wanted to become my gf, but when she refused to do so it didn't brother me that they continued dating. What bothered me was that finding this out and still seeing them at lesbian events and hearing her still id as a lesbian femme.
I was even more upset because I had once believed they were lesbians and got them both gigs working these events representing butches and femmes to our community. My anger in the betrayal I felt went beyond the two of them having continued behind my back, but that they had the nerve to put this fake butch-femme relationship up on our stage using my help to do so.
How they continue to hire her to dance for lesbian events is beyond me and why they allow her fake boyfriend in women and lesbians events I'll never understand.
Now anytime I hear a femme ids as stone, queer, poly, str8 or dates trannies..ect I know off the bat not to waste my time or my energy. I enjoy my body, sex, and that I am a proud butch lesbian too much to ever cheapen that by being with some1 who can not appreciate a butch as a femme should as I will always honor and appreciate the woman my femme is. Women loving women is what being a lesbian is about and there is no part of butch or femme that should be mocked or denied or transformed into any form of cock worshipping female hating heterosexuality.
I agree lesbian women don't need or want men or FTMs or fake str8 posers at our events. That is a violation of our space and an unwanted invasion by all means.
The 2cd socalled femme swore herself a true lesbian and had only dated others female ided butches (and a few men in her past). Well I took her at her word as I had no reason to question her interest in me as lesbian attraction as I made it quite clear from then on that I only date lesbian femmes(real femmes) , but while she & I were not really serious I began to notice that she was also dating some1 else who was in the process of transitioning.
Now I expected her to end that as she claimed she was a lesbian and that she really wanted to become my gf, but when she refused to do so it didn't brother me that they continued dating. What bothered me was that finding this out and still seeing them at lesbian events and hearing her still id as a lesbian femme.
I was even more upset because I had once believed they were lesbians and got them both gigs working these events representing butches and femmes to our community. My anger in the betrayal I felt went beyond the two of them having continued behind my back, but that they had the nerve to put this fake butch-femme relationship up on our stage using my help to do so.
How they continue to hire her to dance for lesbian events is beyond me and why they allow her fake boyfriend in women and lesbians events I'll never understand.
Now anytime I hear a femme ids as stone, queer, poly, str8 or dates trannies..ect I know off the bat not to waste my time or my energy. I enjoy my body, sex, and that I am a proud butch lesbian too much to ever cheapen that by being with some1 who can not appreciate a butch as a femme should as I will always honor and appreciate the woman my femme is. Women loving women is what being a lesbian is about and there is no part of butch or femme that should be mocked or denied or transformed into any form of cock worshipping female hating heterosexuality.
I agree lesbian women don't need or want men or FTMs or fake str8 posers at our events. That is a violation of our space and an unwanted invasion by all means.
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